What would you do if you found out that people were "bad mouthing you" behind your back?
2006-10-26 06:17:14 · 7 answers · asked by Joshua 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
nothing,i do not live to please other people,if they are not happy with something (that ive done or haven't done)or feel the need to talk about me behind my back,that is their problem.i dont care,i have better things to worry about.
2006-10-26 06:24:41 · answer #1 · answered by jen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer should be that you confront the people that are talking. Many would say ignore them. I try to gain an understanding of the person that is talking. Is it from lack of self confident/jealousy? for examples. From there I choose how I am going to react. I will always attempt to take an action that is positive, but being that I am human sometimes I just tell them off.
2006-10-26 13:29:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you kind of have to just slough it off.i mean seriously if they are talking about you they are leaving someone else alone.Plus the saying all publicity is good publicity ..that goes for bad mouthing too.So who cares if someone is bad mouthing you.The fact that they are talking about you shows that they have some interest in you,so make light of it and smile when you see them cause that is gonna get under their skin worse than anything.
2006-10-26 13:22:31 · answer #3 · answered by Red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront them in the most calm way possible...If you don't confront them they will continue to bad mouth you and you will only grow more annoyed by it as time goes on
2006-10-26 13:19:40 · answer #4 · answered by n8dawwgg69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront them in a sly way where i kinda bring up the info to them, make them uncomfortable and just kinda fish it out of them from there.
2006-10-26 13:21:18 · answer #5 · answered by Eric 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront them and ask them what the heck is going on. Just be upfront and see how macho they are.
I bet next time they wont do it.
2006-10-26 13:23:11 · answer #6 · answered by chinaz777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say ignore them.
unless of course if they are touching my good repitition!
2006-10-26 13:21:54 · answer #7 · answered by Kalooka 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋