Maybe its the way I look, it seems like people are always hatin cuz I'm light-skinned wit long hair. Its not my fault, but I do present myself as a young woman and I'm nice to everyone I meet.
2006-10-26 06:04:01 · 16 answers · asked by ♥Spirit♥ 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
sounds to me like whoever you are meeting may be jealous the minute they see you, even if there is no guy around, since you sound beautiful to me. I hope that you will see past that inmature behaviour of those girls, who will be women one day, and just be friendly and nice and dont let ayone get you down. The nicer you are the harder it will be for them NOT to like you, :) stay pretty, lol, INSIDE as well as OUT.
2006-10-26 06:07:15 · answer #1 · answered by cricketwinner@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what, I've had the same problem ever since I was in middle school. I'm not going to lie - I could, more than likely, date whomever i wanted to. Not to be conceited, but people are so hung up on looks nowadays that a pretty face can get you whatever you want. Luckily, i'm just a regular, down to earth chick who doesn't even think about how I look.
You may have a chip on your shoulder. I know i've been treated pretty bad by females in the past, so i'm pretty cynical toward females, especially black females because we tend to be the most jealous, hateful ones to eachother. It's weird because when i'm around whites, the girls are always saying "you're so pretty or whatever" and never are intimidated by me.
My advice is to not worry about it. Everyone's not going to like you, no matter how nice you are. The women you meet who will befriend you will be the confident secure ones who are not at all fazed by your beauty because they have high self-esteem. In the end, those are the ones you should associate with anyway.
Good luck.
2006-10-26 15:19:41 · answer #2 · answered by 11:11 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have been asking myself that for years. I would love to have a group of girls that I can chill with. The problem is that I happen to be a bit on the flirty and on the sexy side, and I don't mean that in a conceited way..but allot of other girls are rubbed the wrong way by this. I like being me, I'm smiley and fun and I see other girls that seem to be the same way but they don't seem to like me. I'm very nice to everyone and will help any one out that I can. I miss having a girl that I can just call and do things with. To bad we live so far...because I understand where you are coming from. Good Luck, and just keep being who you are. I think we are the kind of girls that end up with allot of guy friends. Then of course they always want to be more than friends...it's a no win situation..lol,
2006-10-26 13:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by skipper 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well first of all, the way you wrote this question tells me why women don't like you. You assume they don't like you because they are threatened by your looks, and yet you are in denial of your need to tell everyone how good you look, or at least in denial of the fact that people don't like others who feel a need to walk around showing off. Modesty is a quality I value. I have a friend who is very very attractive, yet she feels a need to report every time someone says how skinny she is, how great her body is, how beautiful she is, etc. Nobody likes a show off - if you look good, you look good, and you don't need to go around telling everyone.
On the other hand, maybe you just haven't met the right girls. Really girly girls don't seem to like me, and I don't particularly like them. I don't want to talk about gucci sunglasses, prada purses, and how much money my boyfriend makes. In fact, I'd rather make more money than my boyfriend. There are plenty of girls however that are NOT girly, who I value more than most guy friends.
2006-10-26 13:18:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know I have that problem,too.I think pretty girls make other woman feel insecure and sometimes jellousy and envy are involved.It seems to me for some reason all females I meet think I'm out to steal their man...even though I'm happily married to a very hansome hunk! I try my damndest to be nice and go out of my way to do so...but yet most womandon't like me, until they get to know me well....
2006-10-26 13:10:21 · answer #5 · answered by INSANE SUGARPUFF 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Gurl I dont get along wit females either maybe because your more mature or you have something they dont n thats y they hate on you! Keep your head up cuz haters only make you stronger!
2006-10-26 13:06:37 · answer #6 · answered by Cortney DaFashioness Chick 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I got the same problem. I get along much better with males than female.
2006-10-26 13:06:10 · answer #7 · answered by It'sMe23 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You must present some kind of perceived threat to them. Either that or you have a bad attitude to whcih they respond badly.
2006-10-26 13:06:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
light skinned with long hair sounds like you would get along great with me!
2006-10-26 13:13:01 · answer #9 · answered by keith 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I know it sounds corny, but theres always someone who wants you just the way you are, and thats it, you just have to be yourself, pretending to be someone else is bad for your self-esteem and it hardly works. So just be the same :)
2006-10-26 13:07:42 · answer #10 · answered by zopah76 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋