Ok i was going out with this guy named john for 6 months and everything was fine, but in june he had to moved up north to work.
I was so sad but we talked and he asked me if i wanted to wait for him when he comes back in october, well i said yes. He said we would keep in touch, by calling, and writing to each other.
When he left the first couple of weeks we would write to with other to make sure we were ok. But once august came around
we stoped talking, once in a while we would leave comments to each other (on myspace)that i missed each other. Then in september I found out he was going out with some ***** named Megan for a month. I was devestated, anger, i wanted him to stay up there and never come back(he had once told me he might have to live up there for good), but just the other day he return, back in town, I really wanted to talk to him because we never really officaily broke up, he just left me. Why really scared to see him. I like somone else, but i really miss him,
2006-10-26 05:54:01 · 9 answers · asked by NAT 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
youre probably scared because there was no real closure. you still have feelings for him obviously but the fact that he hurt you makes you scared that when you see him, you might fall for him again. you have to face him and be strong.
2006-10-26 05:57:33 · answer #1 · answered by WreckinShop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh you poor thing, am afriad guys can be like that sometimes not all but most, it was his fault for doing that to you, but you got to ask yourself did you really think that a long distance relationship would last? and if this guy is doing such mean things to you is it worth crying over him? if you really want my advise then i think you should stop thinking about him and move on, there are so many nice decent guys out there that will appreciate you instead of just wondering off with someone else, i know its easier said then done but trust me it is the best thing in the long run. Infact be happy that you found out what he really is like, this will make it easier to move on.
2006-10-26 12:59:41 · answer #2 · answered by Suriyah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FORGET ABOUT HIM... do you really think you need someone in your life that is going to forget about what he promised you? Why would you allow someone to hurt you like that? Do not spend another minute thinking about this jerk... he perhaps has a lot of growing up to do... and learning how to live by his words. He could have at least said something to you like "this is not working for me, i think we should just be friends." That would have hurt, but at least he would have been a gentleman. He did not give you that curtesy, and he does not deserve your efforts and thoughts.
Move on!
2006-10-26 12:58:38 · answer #3 · answered by chocmartinigrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it and move on. Had he cared about you he would have found a way to get back and see you. Plane tickets aren't that expensive.
2006-10-26 12:56:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you scared of the way your feeling.U r tryna hide your feelings sometimes you just have to let way work itz own magic meaning if your feelings hurt that much sometimes you just have to learn to cope with it the best way u can but yes i do think yall should talk though
2006-10-26 13:00:39 · answer #5 · answered by Antinitra B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like someone else go for someone else. he hurt you. if he comes back, let him chase after you. you are bound to still have feelings for him, but they might not be good ones. let yourself get over it.
2006-10-26 12:57:46 · answer #6 · answered by maria h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time. He obviously did not miss you as much as you missed him.
2006-10-26 12:57:19 · answer #7 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move on if I were you!! Life is too short!!
2006-10-26 12:56:32 · answer #8 · answered by Niecy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a habit that you need to break. Just move on.
2006-10-26 12:56:30 · answer #9 · answered by mimi22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋