Ok, my best friend who is a senior(almost 18), is no going out with my little bother(just turned 14). I dont why but i am in no way ok with this. They have been going out for a month now, and the whole month has been hell. Me and my friend are constantly at each others throats. Every time i see them kissing or holding hands i get so mad that i cant even look her in the eye. I'm not mad at my brother really, cause he is only forteen and doesnt really know what is gettin into. I just feel like my friend is in the wrong. My real question is, is it ok for me not to be ok with them going out?
2006-10-26 05:53:12 · 5 answers · asked by Brent E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yeah its okay i wouldn't want to be in that situation either but i kinda am. okay my friend is going out with my sister shes 16 and hes 23. i don't get mad when i see them together though. it really looks like they love each other so i let it happen. Ive come to notice that age doesn't matter at all. its just a number. but if its not really love between they ll find out sooner or later. don't ruin your relationships over it unless she hurts your brother.
2006-10-26 06:00:42 · answer #1 · answered by legion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sibling took a gal from my 9 grade class to the prom and they dated for a little whlie. There was nothing wrong with that but I know my brother is a wait till marriage for sex kind of guy. If your friend isn't then tell the your sibling about it and keep an eye on this friend. I had saw nothing wrong with it. Now I'm 20 just so u know. The two ended up breaking up in out 10th grade year b/c he was in college.
2006-10-26 13:03:22 · answer #2 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the time your best friend turns 18, she's considered as a legal adult. Your brother is 14-years-old, and dating a minor is illegal. Your best friend should know that! You are his sister, and you have every right to get mad! I agree with you, because your brother doesn't know what he's getting himself into! I think the best thing for you to do is address the issue to your parents and see what they can do to stop it!
2006-10-26 13:37:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I think that the age difference is too inappropriate. If you are almost 18, you don't date a 14 year old. You have a right to be upset. Have you talked to your parents? Are they okay with this??
2006-10-28 08:03:35 · answer #4 · answered by Britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess so,i mean i wouldn't like to see a good friend of mine kissing my brother..try to stay neutral..not showing them that you disagree..maybe they`ll snap out of it...
2006-10-26 12:59:16 · answer #5 · answered by Riot! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋