I had 2 very close girlfriends(i thought) for a couple of years and all of a sudden they totally changed. I'm in my late 20's but I feel like a teenager because of all this drama with these people. Whats the problem with women and friends?
2006-10-26 05:39:46 · 24 answers · asked by cece 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i really don't know whats wrong with them i usually cant keep girls as friends for very long because they always have to find a reason not to like you anyway i found one that's almost exactly like me so we have been friends for 2 years now i feel safe in this friendship keep looking for someone you trust maybe you ll find one.
2006-10-26 05:54:24 · answer #1 · answered by legion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women can be very funny sometimes. It is possible that they changed because you are shining and they are jealous. It is also possible that you may find by some introspection that you have been imposing in nature in your friendship with them. If you think you were the better of the three in the friendship, then you must not let it break up. Just go up to them, sit them down and ask them where what went wrong. Some friendships break up for flimsy reasons and due to lack of proper communication. Women often have extreme imaginative minds and deduce things that may not have occurred. At the same time, I think they are more open to talking and getting over with the burden rather than carrying it as baggage for the rest of their lives. Remember friendship is extremely dear and should be unconditional; and if for any reason it cracks, you must do everything in your power to keep it in tact. I tell you, it is worth the effort.
2006-10-26 05:49:09 · answer #2 · answered by someone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
females are not backstabbers, absolutely everyone seems to be back stabbers. there are possibly tens of millions of females that would truly decide for to have a candy, worrying guy such as you to boost their spirits from dating a backstabber too! So cheer up, there are a lot of alternative fish interior the sea, and Rebecca would not look properly worth it slow if she places your astounding coronary heart out all of the time. i understand maximum adult males hate it once I provide suggestion, so i'm no longer telling you what to do or something :)
2016-10-02 23:53:44 · answer #3 · answered by dunkelberger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that, on some level, women hate each other. Sure, they pretend to be all emotionally connected and nurturing and caring, but really they hate each other. Women seem to know their friends cannot be trusted. Look at how many women go with married guys or guys in serious relationships. Whether this hatred comes from bad self-esteem or jealousy, I cannot say.
2006-10-26 05:42:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think at some point they get jealous of you and it can be over the stupidest things. I have very few friends I dont want alot because I have had many backstabbing friends myself. They want when they want but dont want to give anything in return. It just comes to show that they took your friendship for granted after they get what they want from you then your history. Oh weel dont worry about girls like that you know who you are and what kind of person you are so hold her head up high and forget about them. Just wait they will be back when they want something else and you get the honors to tell them to kiss your ***.
2006-10-26 05:46:52 · answer #5 · answered by 2wild4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as there are friends, there is drama -- especially in women (no offense.) I'm good at not giving things like that the light of day, so that's what I would probably do.
2006-10-26 05:42:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the women you pick to be your friends that's the problem
Clean house and start over with a better understanding of what a true friend is.
2006-10-26 05:41:59 · answer #7 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone hear Elvis Costello's rendition of The Back Stabbers? Excellent! Then he goes into his classic, King Horse. Elvis is King!
2006-10-26 05:41:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres no explanation of that.
but girls are drama. && so are woman. but girls tend to get ticked && turn against there friends easier than a guy does. just because girls like to make a scene.. ANY PLACE ANY TIME*
girls think its there way or no way && if things dont go exactly the way the plan. they FLIP.. i mean they go completley insane. its in a girls nature to go wakko over nothing.. thats what makes us as girls different than guys. were more emotional .. so were goin to show more emotions that guys. && being backstabbers is one of our emotions.!
2006-10-26 05:42:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean!
But don't give up.
You obviously have not had the caliber of friends you deserve but, as women age, they make better and more loyal friends.
Keep your chin up and good luck!
2006-10-26 05:43:52 · answer #10 · answered by mimi22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋