me and my boyfriend have been having sex for 10 months now with out protection but nothing is happening i had a misscarriage 2 years ago could that have a affect on it we want to start a family an dont know wat to do
2006-10-26 05:21:17 · 18 answers · asked by melissa b 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
It's hard to relax and enjoy sex when getting pregnant is the main aim and it must be even harder if you've had a miscarriage and have nagging fears for your fertility. So go to your Dr and explain how you feel. He/she may send you for some basic tests or probably just put your mind at rest. Either way it can't do any harm and will take at least some of that niggling doubt out of your mind and help you relax a bit. Good luck.
2006-10-26 05:35:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
10 Months isn't overly long. I have 4 children, 2 too right away and the other 2 took between 8 months to a year. I've known many women who have had a miscarriage and later had a successful pregnancy. Still I think you should consult with your Doctor to answer some of your questions. Stress can interfere with the implantation of the fertilized egg.
Good luck and best wishes
2006-10-26 05:27:46 · answer #2 · answered by LAUGHING MAGPIE 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many years ago my best buddy confided that he couldn't get his new bride pregnant. Three or four months had gone by and nothing. Now I'm just a dumb kid. Whatta I know from fertility problems? Anyway, I just asked him, "good buddy, how many times a day are ya doin' the Horizontal Bop? The Mattress Mambo? The Big Nasty? Gettin' Jiggy?" He says, "maybe five or six times" "What?" I shouted. "That many times? Dang! Your sperm count must be down to zero." So he took my advice and abstained for three days. Bingo! The bunny died. That may not be the answer to your problem, but it's a funny story.
2006-10-26 05:40:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear ya! My boyfriend and I have been together 3 years and have been having unprotected sex for the past 2 years and have yet to get pregnant. I'm not on the pill and we don't use condoms but it's just not happening. I went to www.yourdays.com to see when I'm ovulating and what not because my period is sometimes irregular and just wanted to know when to expect it so i'd know how late it sometimes runs. I had a low vitamin b-12 level and am not sure if that may be the reason why we aren't getting pregnant but I believe, when God is ready to bless our relationship with a child, he will do just that.
2006-10-26 12:02:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Melissa, to get pregnant you must have sex on a day that your eggs are being released.
After the 3rd day from the day that menses started put a thermometer into your mouth and check your body temperature every morning before you start turning in bed. The best time is at about 4 a.m. Maintain a chart. You will find that on one day the body temperature drops from 1/2 degree to one degree. This is the day that your eggs are being released. If you want to get pregnant this is the day that you must have sex. Tell your husband to ejaculate on his inward thrust so that the sperms will shoot deep inside.
After having sex you must stay in bed for about 30 mins with your knees bent up with a pillow under your buttocks so that the sperms will not pour out - to enable them to travel up.
Get your husband to save his sperms in the testacles for at least 3 days before sex to enable them to mature well to do their job.
2006-10-26 14:37:29 · answer #5 · answered by donp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are always thinking about having a baby while having sex it will stress you both out and that makes it harder to fall pregnant you need a nice relaxing evening that is just about both of you spend one night just talking about sex and what you both want then spend a night massaging each other above clothes then another night just fore play and small touches then next night you will want each other so much you wont think baby you will think Passion and sex which you have more Chance to fall when you and relaxed and not trying at the moment you are trying to hard
2006-10-26 11:25:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had exactly the same problem, me and my husband was trying for a year, i went to a fertility clinic and they prescribed me a fertility drug called clomid, it worked straightaway and i fell pregnant within 2 cycles of taking the clomid.if nothing else works for you im sure this would be successful.now i have a beautiful baby boy, keep your chin up aswel i understand how this can get you down and make you feel under pressure, youre not on your own.it will happen xx
2006-10-26 21:39:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I firstly want to wish you all the luck in the world. I am in the same situation not being able to concieve, but I think that it might be harder (although I hope not) I remember reading it some where. Good Luck and hope it happens soon.
2006-10-26 05:36:33 · answer #8 · answered by rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you can try too hard, but if you have had a miscarriage in the past maybe a health check might put your mind at ease.
Hope it works out for you both.
2006-10-26 05:23:48 · answer #9 · answered by lollipoppett2005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First i might see a doctor and clarify to him/her your seize 22 undertaking. Have your boyfriend get a sperm count huge type and tell him there is not any shame in it. fairly some adult males have this performed to attempt and get to the muse of the subject. Doing a sperm count huge type can help discover out if he's the subject and not you. i truly wish the two certainly one of you luck.
2016-10-02 23:52:51 · answer #10 · answered by dunkelberger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋