Ive just found out my sister is having an affair with my husband of 30 yrs she is only 22 and he is 65 i am totally gutted
2006-10-26 05:15:09 · 19 answers · asked by hot lips 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Snap into a Slim Jim!
2006-10-26 05:16:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to keep it real if your gonna make things up. If your mum had you at 18 she had your sister at 44.. You would have been better saying husband of 3 or 4 years and hes 40. Just some suggestions for future.
2006-10-26 08:15:05 · answer #2 · answered by zephs mummy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God thats bad 4 you, you need to confront them god u must feel terrible, i dont understand wot a 22 yr old would see in a 65 yr old thats a huge age gap.
There the two people who should really care about you the most I dont understand there reasons is he v rich, is he attracted to young girls?
2006-10-26 05:20:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't said how long for, depends on how strongly you feel, you could separate from you husband, disown your sister. Stay with your husband.
It is a terrible thing that has happened to you, but don't rush into anything, that you may later regret. Anger is a bad thing, give yourself time to think it through, move out for a while or ask your husband to.
Hope all goes well for you.
2006-10-26 05:31:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tragic situation but only you know what is best for you and your family.
I would recommend finding a counselor to help you do with the very complicated emotions you are probably feeling right now.
You may want to consider marriage counseling or a consultation with a divorce attorney.
Obviously it will be difficult to ever trust your sister again and this will probably impact your entire family. Follow your heart and do what you think is best.
You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
2006-10-26 05:19:28 · answer #5 · answered by Tamborine 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to confront the two, let them know you know what is happening them.Shame on your husband to be fooling around with your sister, but more shame to your sister she is family and should know better. Confront them right away and get every thing out in the open. You should even get a member of your family to sit in on that meeting, say your mother (If she is alive).Shame,shame,shame on your sister.
2006-10-26 05:23:50 · answer #6 · answered by annsharq 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god is this for real???that is so awful!!no 1 why would someone so young be interested in someone so old?? no 2 is she your real sister cause there must be a huge age gap if your similar age to your husband! no 3 i would never talk to her or him again!!i would throw him out right now and shut yourself off from her!!know its hard but you dont need these people in your life!!good luck xx
2006-10-26 05:22:38 · answer #7 · answered by Lydia K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he 65 and she 22 he should knoe better the wast of spece you heed a good man i would treat you like a lady
2006-10-26 05:32:16 · answer #8 · answered by stephenjameswells 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be totally honest, what does your sister see in a guy almost triple her age?
No offence but he's old enough to be her grandfather!!!
You need to have it out with both of them, just make sure you've got the facts and not just suspicions!
2006-10-26 05:19:55 · answer #9 · answered by Mizz Julie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Gutted is an understatement, I would slap 'em both so ahard, then cut all ties and get whatever you can from him- don't remember how much you used to love him, be merciless!
2006-10-26 05:49:50 · answer #10 · answered by jowigley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋