she's not even on her period
2006-10-26 05:02:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Hey isn't that what girls think? I've heard that women dont like to have that much sex.. that doesn't exactly means she is cheating.. it could be other things.. maybe she is too tired.. maybe she is not thinking about it.. maybe she think YOU are the one that doenst want to have sex.. maybe she is upset about something that happened a loooong time ago and she can;t let go.. man there are so many reaosn why.. i mean i wouldn't know cause.. sex is sex.. but women are different.. but cheating is not alwys the answer... why dont you just ask her how come you haven;t had sex.. i mean do you guys have sex regularly? there are other facts before you out that in yours heart that she is cheating.
2006-10-26 05:06:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, I doubt she is cheating. I could go a month or more and not think about it. My husband gets very frustrated that I don't initiate, but most women don't have the same desires and urges as men. The make up of a women's brain and that of a man's are wired up completely differently. So unless you have more evidence than her sex drive, I would very much suspect that your girlfriend is monogamous. Good luck to you.
2006-10-26 12:07:16 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle Lynn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who normally makes the first move? Are you fulfilling her?
She may be experiencing "woman" problems and may not feel comfortable sharing it with you.... Trust me these "woman problems" can be quite embarassing when discussing with the opposite sex.
These are just some ideas to take into consideration before you think she is cheating on you.
2006-10-26 12:05:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww... don't immediately think the worst of your girlfriend.. that isn't healthy in any relationship. you should learn to trust her more. if she were cheating on you it'd probaby be because she couldn't keep it in her pants, in which case you probably would have been getting lovin'o'plenty at home... she probably just hasn't been in the mood lately.. it'll pass...
2006-10-26 12:09:53 · answer #4 · answered by pattie-cake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One evening last week, my girlfriend and I were getting into bed.
Well, the passion starts to heat up, and she eventually says, "I don't feel like it, I just want you to hold me."
I said, "WHAT??!! What was that?!"
So she says the words that every boyfriend on the planet dreads to hear...
"You're just not in touch with my emotional needs as a woman enough for me to satisfy your physical needs as a man."
She responded to my puzzled look by saying, "Can't you just love me for who I am and not what I do for you in the bedroom?"
Realizing that nothing was going to happen that night, I went to sleep.
The very next day I opted to take the day off of work to spend time with her. We went out to a nice lunch and then went shopping at a big, big unnamed department store. I walked around with her while she tried on several different very expensive outfits. She couldn't decide which one to take, so I told her we'd just buy them all. She wanted new shoes to compliment her new clothes, so I said, "Lets get a pair for each outfit."
We went on to the jewelry department where she picked out a pair of diamond earrings. Let me tell you... she was so excited. She must have thought I was one wave short of a shipwreck.
I started to think she was testing me because she asked for a tennis bracelet when she doesn't even know how to play tennis.
I think I threw her for a loop when I said, "That's fine, honey." She was almost nearing sexual satisfaction from all of the excitement.
Smiling with excited anticipation, she finally said, "I think this is all dear, let's go to the cashier."
I could hardly contain myself when I blurted out, "No honey, I don't feel like it."
Her face just went completely blank as her jaw dropped with a baffled,
"WHAT?"
I then said, "Honey! I just want you to HOLD this stuff for a while.
You're just not in touch with my financial needs as a man enough for me to satisfy your shopping needs as a woman."
And just when she had this look like she was going to kill me, I added, "Why can't you just love me for who I am and not for the things I buy you?"
Apparently I'm not having sex tonight either....but at least that b i a t c h knows I'm smarter than her
2006-10-26 12:13:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am married and go thru these spells as well. It does not mean that she is cheating.
2006-10-26 12:24:35 · answer #6 · answered by cfoxwell99 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
instead of jumping to conclusions, talk to her. she may be tired, not feeling good or just plain not in the mood. you could ask her what she would like you to do to make her feel more romantic with you.
2006-10-26 12:05:51 · answer #7 · answered by catywhumpass 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Its normal. Sometimes we just need a break. If you have been together a while then it will happen more and more.
2006-10-26 12:04:36 · answer #8 · answered by KC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends, but my husband and I go through cycles. Just don't accuse!
2006-10-26 12:05:15 · answer #9 · answered by dollface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you jump to this conclusion? Why don't you talk to her? Couples go through this. Why are you so paranoid?
2006-10-26 12:03:35 · answer #10 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋