I wanna hook up with my friend. he used to have feelings for me and i think he still does, he wants me to go visit him. and we plan on meeting up just to hang out. i have major feelings for him now. he still says things about me like i'm cute, goofy and funny and any guy would like me. and he misses me when i'm away, calls me lots and emails me, saying like 'honey where are you. i miss you' he used to try and make it so we would be together, but has got used to being my friend, and is always there for me, and i'm there for him. but i've started seeing him in a sexy, boyfriend, non-friend kind of way. i wanna let him know. i cant just let it flow because i stopped it once before. but i dont wanna stop it anymore.
2006-10-26 05:01:33 · 7 answers · asked by maria h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Simple....jump his bones....he'll get the idea!
2006-10-26 05:08:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since in the past you somehow knew he had feelings for you and that situation was squelched; then bring it up again in a non treatening way and let him know that you want to be more than friends. Someone has to be the one to take the risk and he did before and now it's your turn.
Good luck
Hope this helps
2006-10-26 12:08:35 · answer #2 · answered by dymps 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't turn a friendship into an affair, but you can incorporate your feelings into a relationship. best friends make the best spouses. if ya are meant to be it will happen.
2006-10-26 12:05:41 · answer #3 · answered by Stacy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AW WW THAT IS SO SWEET....... STRANGE ENOUGH MY HUBBY AND I WERE BEST FRIENDS AND WE BOTH WAS SO AFRAID OF LOSING ARE FRIEND SIP THAT WE NEVER MADE A MOVE BUT ONE NIGHT HE KISSED ME OUT OF THE BLUE AND I TOLD HIM IT'S BOUT TIME i WAS GONNA GIVE UP SINCE THEN WE'VE BEEN TOGETHER .... I HAVE 2 BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTERS AND A HAPPY MARRIAGE .....
i WISH YOU ALL THE BEST.... GIVE IT TIME IT WILL HAPPEN NATURALLY!!!
2006-10-26 12:08:10 · answer #4 · answered by tee k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he wants to go out he will make the move..only if he really loves you in that kind of way
2006-10-26 12:06:43 · answer #5 · answered by HaNnAh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there! 28 years ago. Do whatever you have to, don't let him go. You may have to just let it "flow".
2006-10-26 12:10:10 · answer #6 · answered by outlander3002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he wants to be your boyfriend he will make a move
2006-10-26 12:03:38 · answer #7 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋