There is this girl that is always around my boyfriend whenever i'm not with him at the bar. but everytime I am with him she never talks to him. I asked her straight out if she liked him and she said no. but went and ran her mouth twisting my words to my boyfriend and he got mad at me sayin I didn't need to ask her that because they are just friends. Well I found out that he added her name to his yahoo list, but when I add a friend of mine that he doesn't like he gets mad about it.. I know she is tryin to break us up and he can't see it. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. I love him with all my heart and I trust him. but I know deep down she is tryin to do something..
2006-10-26 04:56:11 · 6 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Everybody so far has given great advice, but I'd like to add that next time he says something about who you add to your messenger list, tell him that he can go f*** himself because he's being a hypocrite because he added her to his list when he knows how you feel about her.
I personally feel that this relationship is almost over. I'm sorry. I just recently went through this BS myself.
2006-10-26 05:16:40 · answer #1 · answered by concretebrunette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jen im sorry buy hangin out and visiting with someone at a bar accasionally is not the same as having them on ur yahoo list and chatting it up with them on a regular basis.
Sounds to me there is more to it then friends if not right now or in the future there will be
2006-10-26 05:00:52 · answer #2 · answered by lovable110 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM YOU DON'T APPRECIATE WHAT HE IS DOING ..... IT IS FU** ED UP IT'S LIKE HE IS TAKING HER SIDE. YOU HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 2 YEARS IT SHOULD BE WORTH SOMETHING
TELL HIM THAT YOU ARE VERY UNCOMFORTABLE ABOUT HER BEING AROUND HIM AND IT WOULD E FINE IF YOU WERE THERE BUT NOT WHEN YOUR NOT THERE,.. ALSO YOU SEEM LIKE YOU DON'T TRUST HIM AT ALL BECAUSE OF HER(TELL HIM THAT) SHE IS MAKING ME DOUBT OUR RELATIONSHIP....
IF THAT DOESN'T WORK HAVE YOUR FRIENDS HANGING AROUND YOU AND IF HE DOESN'T LIKE IT WELL YOU KNOW WHAT TO DO...HE SHOULD RESPECT YOUR FEELINGS NO MATTER WHAT... FIND A NEW MAN WHO DOES!!!
WISH YOU ALL THE BEST!
2006-10-26 05:03:44 · answer #3 · answered by tee k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever someting upsets you, makes you unhappy, gives you the heebie-jeebies, you just gotta speak up. Don't really worry in situations like this on what's fair and what isn't. If it makes you uncomfortable, then he should stop doing it. Bottom Line. He may fight you on it, tell you your being silly, but you just say "Baby, I love you, but I am uncomfortable with her being in our lives and I would like you to please minimize your contact with her. That's it. I don't trust her, she gives me a bad vibe and there's just nothing you can say or do to change that."
2006-10-26 05:01:24 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can't do what he doesn't want. HE added her name to his yahoo list therefore he wants to connect with her. He is berating YOU for talking to her. Who is the girlfriend here? He needs to cut his ties with her or you need should cut your ties to him.
2006-10-26 04:59:25 · answer #5 · answered by Lioness 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
her trying to break you may be happening but it would be up to your boyfriend whether he takes the bait or not
2006-10-26 05:02:54 · answer #6 · answered by confused7873 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋