that i need to get busy and invest in my marriage because that is the first sign it is neglected. you are in control of this. put your attention on your feelings for your spouse and nurture and invest in those. so they will grow and not the other feelings. reduce contact with the friend and spend time with hubby/wife instead. You control how you feel about someone by controlling your time and what you think about. Think about how to please your spouse or what vacations you will plan with spouse.
2006-10-26 04:36:40
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answered by Sufi 7
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My best friend and I have a close relationship, one night she told me she was cheating on her husband with another one of her friends but what she didn't know was that I had developed feelings for her also and I just simply told her I thought she would flip out but she didn't and now we are even closer.....she has admitted she has feeling for me also.....but she says she feels guilty about the whole mess.....I say all will work itself out.
2006-10-26 12:13:40
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answered by dee r 1
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In a close friendship you are going to have those sorts of feelings, but you just have to know when to draw the line
2006-10-26 11:36:10
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answered by stephaniencurtis 2
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Personally I feel guilty even if it is just a little harmless flirting going on. If I felt like there is more thatn innocent feeling then I would avoid that person.
2006-10-26 11:35:48
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answered by Allinwiththenuts 4
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It is normal to develop feelings for a close friend, just don't let it go too far. This is why husbands/wives are jealous of their spouses that have friends of a different sex.
2006-10-26 11:36:40
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answered by rosie 4
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About the time I feel the need to get on Yahoo Answers and ask others if I should be feeling guilty.
I pray there are no children involved.
2006-10-26 11:35:27
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answered by BlueSea 7
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If you're feeling guilty you've crossed the line.
If you love your spouse cross back over now.
2006-10-26 11:35:59
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answered by daljack -a girl 7
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that is on the edge of cheating in the heart it is done just a matter of time before it come out in the physical watch out !
if it was me i would cut now !
2006-10-26 11:37:09
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answered by 32606 3 3
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you should feel guilty now -- these feelings are not innocent.
2006-10-26 11:35:32
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answered by teritjh62 1
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GUILTY!
2006-10-26 11:37:57
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answered by Anonymous
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