who doesnt love you but like you only
2006-10-26 04:08:37 · 18 answers · asked by weng 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Wow this is a hard question! It hurts when you love someone and they dont love you back, in the past I have found it best to try and get out more and meet new people, not see has much of that person so it didnt hurt has much. They say time is a good healer and I have found this to be true, although sometimes you always love that person but you learn to love others and move on. I loved someone years ago, we stayed good friends and although I never stopped loving him (and it hurt when I saw him) I did move on and get remarried and am happy now. The sad thing is you cant make someone love you it has to be their choice. Good luck and I hope you meet someone who can loveyou back like you deserve xxx
2006-10-26 04:15:30 · answer #1 · answered by looby1967 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It takes time.
If it were meant to be then they would love you also.
And besides you deserve to be loved, so if they don't love you then remember that some day you will find someone who will stick you right up there on that pedestal and adore you just as you now love this person, but it will work both ways and that is the best type of love.
You may always have feelings for that person but you will love someone else but it will be in a different way if that makes any sense at all!
Chin up sweetie.x
2006-10-26 11:23:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a painful place isnt it? Most people experience it at some point in their life. You keep yourself busy and have an active social life away from them until gradually you realise you are thinking less about them. One day the feeling just goes. Sometimes it takes meeting someone else for you to fully acknowledge it and move on. Whatever you do, resist all temptation to harass this person and stamp on any potential stalker tendencies. You will be proud of yourself in the long run.
2006-10-26 11:16:37 · answer #3 · answered by Valli 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to be realistic.. It is unhealthy for you to hold onto something that can never happen. It damages your self esteem and your spirit...
You have to look at it, like a process and transition.
You should cry your eyes out, write a letter pouring out all your feelings...then burn it... Get on a roller coaster and go on a terrifying ride. alone.
The fear should pull your mind back to reality....
Look at your life as being stalled and give yourself a boost with some fun times with friends..
Get out, don't sit around. socialize.. and live your life.. You have just begun.. If you react this way through your whole life when love doesn't go the way you want it to, you will waste it.
Find someone who shares the same feeling....don't settle for less
2006-10-26 11:42:06 · answer #4 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah after a long period of time though, loving someone creates a strong unique bond that you couldnt possible have with another person but once that relationship is broken you find it hard to overcome it and often can get very stressed and upset for a long time.
Hope this helps!
2006-10-26 11:25:50 · answer #5 · answered by Katherine C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Begin by avoiding spending too much time around that person. Date other people. Soon enough, you will forget about the person for whom you have desires.
If love (in this case) only equals strong feelings of desire, then your desires will fade soon enough. Don't dwell on it. Find someone else to pursue.
2006-10-26 11:19:54 · answer #6 · answered by Gin Martini 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) Love him/her in silence
2) Focus on the bad things about him/her
3) Meet someone else who has a future with you
4) Take a trip somewhere
5) Tell yourself that in time this feeling will abate
6) Try not to see him/ her
7) Give yourself a strong pep talk and say "This is not meant to be!"
2006-10-26 11:12:10 · answer #7 · answered by simon2blues 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling-not much. Spend less time with them, contact them less. Keep yourself busy and onlt time will tell if you'll remain friends. Best solution is to meet someone else, who will like you in that way. Good luck!
2006-10-26 11:13:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i think that maybe you should jus move on coz im tellin you there ate loads of decent lads and girls out there that just wnt a lovin partner iv found a lad who is so wonderful and careing and i promise you there are many more like him!! gud luk xxx besyds everyone deserves to b loved!! try and forget bout him go see your friends or family
2006-10-26 11:11:52 · answer #9 · answered by *!*Rach H*!* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no magic way to stop loving someone but if you have faith and confidence in yourself then in time your feelings will dampen and you'll feel free and ready to love another
2006-10-26 11:14:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋