She is 16 and so is the boyfriend. I am willing to just let it run its course. She is a smart kid. Just looking for some advise to maybe hurry the process. I know if I start trying to break them up then she will just get closer to him.
2006-10-26 03:54:05 · 15 answers · asked by ftw35m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't actively voice your disapproval of the relationship. Get her busy. Encourage her to go out with friends. If necessary make the arrangements like dinners, concerts, whatever.
Make family outings and don't include him. When he wants to take her out then find ways to keep her busy and unable to do this.
Chores etc. Does she work part-time? This will help teach her some responsibility, time management , etc. while earning her a little pocket money and keep her busy. When she isn't working she will have her responsibilities at home and school while also being to busy for him. He will get tired of it eventually.
I had this same problem but with my son. I didn't want him dating this particular girl. Eventually she got tired of him not having any time for her and it ended.
2006-10-26 04:01:39 · answer #1 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So your looking out for her best interests, by trying to get her boyfriend to break up with her, so you can get with her, boy if she found this out she would be really upset, a man with character, would never do something like this, how about date a few girl, don't get serious, with anyone, and when she becomes free, then see if you have a shot
2006-10-26 04:03:59 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do you want them to break up in the first place?
"We date to find the one we are going to marry...and to learn the qualities we do and don't like in a guy, so eventually we can find the right one."
If you keep trying to make her break up with her boyfriend, she will never learn lessons on her own and your relationship with your daughter will be on the rocks.
She IS going to date, whether you like it or not. Let it go.
2006-10-26 03:57:15 · answer #3 · answered by GirlInMassachusettTOWN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you are willing to let it run the course yet you are wanting to speed up the process of a breakup? That contradicts yourself. Why do you want to speed it up?
2006-10-26 03:56:19 · answer #4 · answered by teresadick30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. Accept him with open arms, because if you fight it she'll just get closer to him. Never say anything negative about him, say glowing compliments and he'll lose his "coolness". Also, girls will stay with guys that treat them bad because of low self esteem, or wanting to feel accepted by men. Teach your daughter good self esteem and that she's worth more. Spend more time one on one with her right now, so she knows you love her. Teach her to stand up for herself and that she deserves to be treated with respect.
2006-10-26 04:01:23 · answer #5 · answered by Astro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use reverse psychology.
Praise him and cater to him until your daughter pukes.
It works all the time!
But beware! It works only one time. Your daughter is smart and she will understand what you are doing if you try it again with one of her next boyfriends.
2006-10-26 03:57:14 · answer #6 · answered by Hi y´all ! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Use reverse psychology. Start to hang out with the b/f. Take them out to eat. Start being his buddy. And make sure you make comments like "he and I are so much alike, I think he is my twin". She will dump him in a second when she starts thinking he is just like you. It is hard, but it works trust me.
2006-10-26 05:13:08 · answer #7 · answered by Joesmoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a million) once you've informed him to stop and he hasn't, chop up with him. 2) in case you haven't informed him to stop then tell him and if he nonetheless doesn't stop, chop up with him. 3) contact him in irrelevant places and be conscious how he likes it. 4) tell him to go contact himself and not in any respect you. 5) tell him to locate yet another woman to mistreat. 6) dump him right this moment. 7) persist such as your heart. 8) good luck and that i desire you the suitable!
2016-12-05 06:14:41 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't device any plans for this....it's totally normal for teenagers to date, what more with their raging hormones (sorry dun mean to frighten you). the best solution i see is to sit her down and have a very honest intelligent parent/daughter non-judgmental talk and convey yr worries to her. she might not see it but at least it's sumthing for her to ponder on. hv u ever reflected on yrself during yr teenage yrs and how u felt abt dating then?
2006-10-26 03:59:32 · answer #9 · answered by . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire someone to come on to him so he will cheat on her & there you go!Make sure you get the proof he cheated of coarse. Have the girl you hired take some pic.
2006-10-26 04:16:54 · answer #10 · answered by Crystal A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋