Its her first real boyfriend and I am afraid they are getting to close. He is starting to control her already.
2006-10-26 03:43:14 · 21 answers · asked by ftw35m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
woah, hold on. if you try to seperate them, the only thing that that will accomplish is pushing them even closer. it's really hard for parents to understand, but there's some things that she's going to have to learn on her own, especially when it comes to relationships. the best thing you can do is talk to her about your feelings, don't make demands, but be honest with her and tell her that you don't feel comfortable with her boyfriend having so much control over her. educate her to be a strong young woman who can make the right decisions for herself. then hopefully she will make the decision on her own to end the controlling relationship.
2006-10-26 03:51:32 · answer #1 · answered by LoriBeth 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how old is she....
Do not ever lie to your daughter about anything because that breaks their trust in you.
If you really want to get through to her you need to have a talk with her and tell her how you feel and how their relationship is effecting you and that u think they are geting to close.
Be sure to tell her u dont lose who u are when ur with someone.
If u constatly bad mouth him that is going to give her more reason to keep him around and defent him.
You need to sit them both down and talk with the two of them about how u feel
2006-10-26 03:49:18 · answer #2 · answered by lovable110 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what you say 2 her as a teenager she will never listen she will only listen 2 her friends so a would advice mibi tryin 2 speak 2 1 of them
2006-10-26 03:47:04 · answer #3 · answered by xprincessx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don´t.
Whe are in 2006. That kind of thinking is ratter old.
Let them choose. Advice her. It´s the only smart thing you should do.
After all you are a father not a judje.
2006-10-26 03:46:25 · answer #4 · answered by drawingyoureyes 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you should welcome him like a lost family member. Teens never like the guy you like so like this one. Really I am not joking I did this on one of my daughters boyfriend just treated him like he was part of the family and soon she tired of him. If you fight back against him It could back fire on you she will want him more because it's a rebellious thing.
2006-10-26 03:56:24 · answer #5 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know its natural to be overprotected to your daughter into this things. it would be great if you have a nice talk with your daughter and spend more time with her..be friends..ask her to opened things up to you. you must not forced her to break up with his boyfriend..you must have respect with both..and besides this would be a great experience to here..just guide her..cause you cant be always be by her side. at least you told her things that right..and it would be better to have advices come from you than from friends since you have more experience than her circle of friends and especially your a guy...
2006-10-26 04:14:04 · answer #6 · answered by anzai_chavz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on a vacation - a long vacation. Get them away from one another.
Or, get her involved with sports or someone else. Get her involved in Tennis - practice will keep her away from him.
Or, you can do what I plan to do when my daughters start dating - take the boy aside, tell him you've got 25 acres in the middle of nowhere, a gun, and a shovel....no one will ever find him!
Good luck!
2006-10-26 03:47:28 · answer #7 · answered by gatesfam@swbell.net 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
this is a difficult situation, as usually when you want your child to do something, the exact opposite becomes their most ardent desire. be careful with this one, and i would suggest that you just make it miserable for them in general, such as not letting them have time time together and restricting phone time, etc. be careful though to not be so mean as to make them band together against you, as children will stand together just for spite. good luck!
2006-10-26 03:56:29 · answer #8 · answered by Laci_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't...and if you try to, she will get closer to him. Leave it alone, and let it run it's course. Maintain house rules about curfew, and know where she is going with him all the time. Other than that, it's outta your hands.
2006-10-26 03:45:51 · answer #9 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its her first give some advice on guys and allow her to learn it own her own if u get in now she will aways be mad at u for butting in on her boyfriend
2006-10-26 03:47:14 · answer #10 · answered by Playboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋