are things on the level?
i wanna ask your advice. This guy i just started seeing was really open about how he felt about me a long time ago, but now we are together he seems a little bit closed or guarded. sometimes he is very, very open about it. and at other times he stops. i'm trying to be totally open about how i feel about him.
if i go somewhere, he misses me. he said he's really happy that we are together and everything has come right. but i remember when i met him he was pouring his heart out a bit more. i'm trying to tell him sorry i took so long, and i feel alot for him. there's nothing for him to worry about.
2006-10-26 03:43:05 · 4 answers · asked by maria h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
the new as wore off yall have settled it probable feels more comfortable and assums you know how he feels.
in a relationship you always seem to talk more in the begining thats because your getting to know each other.
2006-10-26 03:48:00 · answer #1 · answered by lovable110 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when it takes a long time for a love to come out , people guard themselfs because they are scared that they let thier feelings out now they will get hurt , and sometimes its just being a guy men dont open up alot to women most of the time best thing you can do is sit down and tell him how you feel and tell him that your worried or what your thinking i been married 13 years to my hs sweetheart and the best part of advice i can give anyone is to be open and honest and see what they are thinking and tell them what you feel never keep things hidden cause they just come back to bite ya in the butt !!
2006-10-26 10:49:50 · answer #2 · answered by jazieyez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If two people are truly attracted to one another, you don't have to spend so much time reassuring one another.
It sounds like he is a little insecure... Actions speak louder than words and you both need to calm down and relax.....
If you hear too much all the time , you will tire of it and each other.
There is always a time for sharing intimacies, but having too much can drown a relationship..
You should be able to live your lives independent of one another and quit trying to fill every moment or feeling of your life with each other, it is not healthy..
You must remain strong as one as well as strong as a couple.....
2006-10-26 11:24:53 · answer #3 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I know what's happening. All the fun is in the persecution. Now that the cat has caught the mouse, fun is done. A man will go to all extremes to get what he wants. Once that is over, It's on to the next chase. It's a biological thing. It has nothing to do with social etiquette. he's just tochicken to say so.
2006-10-26 10:54:17 · answer #4 · answered by Jayme C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋