i love him veri much but cant express becos i think he likes someone else wat should i do i m se`riously confused i dont wanna loose him at any cost.because i love him more 6han my life he is my friend but he dont know that i love him he takes me as her bestest sis.
2006-10-26 03:37:00 · 13 answers · asked by the great girl ()$#^^@ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Whether or not this boy is behind in his education is not the issue here because usually, when somone likes someone, that will not affect the feelings you have for one another and there are as many girls as their are boys who don't finish their schooling and some go back to it years later when they never completed their studies.
I have been to University twice and done two degrees and never had any schooling growing up. Many mature students, who go to university for example, have done very little education whilst at school but made up this difference years later, so somone's educational level is nothing to concern over.
The feelings you have for this boy however, have grown out of a liking for him, but he happens to like somone else. That is tough for you and not a nice thing to go through when you feel the way you do about somone who doesn't feel that way back and because you are both still very young, means that you will have a lot more to go through with girlfriends and boyfriends for some years ahead of you both yet.
If you are confused, then you are not ready for anything with this boy because you are still considering what you do feel. This is good because you are beginning to explore your feelings for somone else perhaps for the first time?. This is a big leap into the unknown for you and it is perhaps more that you admire the things in this boy that are telling you what sort of things you will be looking for in other boys when you start dating.
He also admires you, but in a different way and for you to continue being a good friend, it is perhaps better to allow him the right to choose which ever girl he wants to go out with. This doesn't mean he hates you or dislikes you, but is is looking for different kinds of qualities in girls around him. You are his friend and you can't make him like you more than that if he doesn't feel the same way. But you can continue to be a great friend which is what would mean far more to him than you think it does.
Tell him that you like him, but be prepared for him to tell you that he doesn't like you in the same way. It will be very hard to accept this, but the more he sees you making friends and enjoying the friendships and company of other friends, the more likely he will see you in a different way than he does currently, because you perhaps hang around him too much or give out the signal that you like him too much and this can frighten some boys.
So, finding some more of your own and look as if you are having some fun and enjoying yourself is the right way ahead in this situation and will help you to lessen the intensity of your crush on this boy that will fade in time once you have met other boys and gotten to know them. This will also probabley make him fancy you too if he sees you are more aloof from him - It usually does work that way!
2006-10-26 04:02:32 · answer #1 · answered by Shikira-trudi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what you have to do is just talk to himand see like if he likes someone else or if he has feelings for you? and if you feel liek if you ask him this that you will lose him then kinda move into it slowly! also stuff like this always happens the best friend likes the other best friend but doesnt know if he likes her or he doesnt know if she likes him? but to tell you the truth he is probably having the same problem you are! so just if ya'll are the best of friends then sit down and talk to him about all this kinda stuff cause if ya'll are the best of friends then he probably will tell you that he feels the same or he might not even have a problem with it!
2006-10-26 03:45:46 · answer #2 · answered by brit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friend and tell him how you really feel. The least he could say is no, so go for it! It it's meant to be, it'll happen. Since you don't want to lose him as a friend, continue to be his friend. Go out there and meet new people. The bottom line is that it's entirely up to you. Either risk the friendship and be more than friends or continue to be his friend and meet new people. I hope this helps. Best of luck.
2006-10-26 03:49:44 · answer #3 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he consider u as a best sis i dont think he will ever love u like a girl,i say that u shouldnt make too many hopes with him.by the way if u r a girl than why ur avatar it looks like a guy?huh?
2006-10-26 04:17:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him the worst he could do is say he likes the other person . whats the deal with you avatar if you are a girl just curious??
2006-10-26 03:40:00 · answer #5 · answered by formerffagirl05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell him how you feel about him or move on with your life and find someone else.
2006-10-26 03:40:21 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your avatar is very manly for a girl.
2006-10-26 03:38:58 · answer #7 · answered by noambition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age shouldn't remember, and particular often times it is lust basically. youthful adult males want older women for his or her journey. adult males want young women by way of fact they're sparkling in the experience that their bodies supple and eye-catching. for myself i admire older adult males as they're greater mature of their questioning.
2016-10-16 10:34:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You look more like guy not a girl, but ok everyone have it's own style!;)
2006-10-26 04:21:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if that were the case, perhaps you should remain just as friends.
2006-10-26 03:38:37 · answer #10 · answered by michael2003c2003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋