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I haven't talk to my baby daddy in 3 days. I told him don't call me anymore but I'm 2 months pregnant he don't want me to have but he know I don't believe in abortion I'm just wondering why he haven't check on me or his unborn child I calls him and he seems to never pick up the phone and he don't call me back. What should I do?

I mean I am pregnant with his child

Answer 1

You should stick to your guns on your beliefs.

You should also write this man off. Don't call him. He doesn't care about you or your baby, or he would be there regardless of whether you told him to go away or not.

You made an unfortunate mistake in sleeping with this uncaring man, but you have a new baby to think about. Focus on that. Get your life together and ready for your new little one. You can do it alone, and honestly you are better off alone that with some man who doesn't give a crap.

Answer 2

I am so sorry sweetie if you think that being pregnant for or having a baby for a man is going to make him treat you like a queen, not!!!!!!!!

He is probably pissed that you are going to force him into fatherhood, he asked you to get rid of the baby, hint!!!

He is showing you right now exactly what he is going to do when the baby is born, nothing. Why hasn't he called you? Because you have become the annoying baby mama, he is seeing the new chick, that he was dating anyway, which is why he doesn't want to be a father. Obviously he is a pretty young man and definitely not ready for the whole family thing a ma jig.

Sorry to be so blunt my dear my intentions are good. Prepare for single parenthood, it's a hard road to travel and you've got a mighty long way to go. (old Jamaican song)

Forgive me lord, but girl you're only two months I say do the D-n-C. Your;e being selfish that baby will grow up without a dad, and without the financial support of a dad too probably, that's not fair to the kid. Send him on to his heavenly father now or if you're that adamant about abortion then consider adoption.

Next time get married and you and your husband decide and agree together when to start a family.

Also women that say you can do it alone, yeah you can - but try explaining to your child with tears in his/her eyes why daddy doesn't love them. Oh my that hurts - stop the bullshit ladies children need both parents.

Answer 3

Don't expect someone to call and check on you after you tell them not to call you. He's just doing what you asked him to do. I think the 2 of you need to sit down and have a long talk about your children and your future. The 2 of you decided to make babies so now it's up to both of you to take care of those children and provide for their needs. Whether he wanted another baby or not isn't the issue....you had unprotected sex and that leads to pregnancy.... now he's got to step up and take the role of father. If I were you, I'd stop playing games and have a serious conversation about how you're going to take care of the child, where to live, names,etc. Being parents is a serious challenge....the life of a child is in your hands....get together & talk about what you're going to do to take care of this child.

Answer 4

By you telling him not to call you anymore it was an escape route for him. He doesn't want you to have the child, and this is an easy way out for him. He can always blame it on you for him not calling and being around, instead of admitting he is a low life. But it's not your fault, he's just not a real man that can step up to the plate.

Answer 5

let him be. if he wants to be irresponsible and selfish he will be the one in the long run that will have to pay for it. right now its not a big deal for him to be there. beside support not much he could do anyway. so make the best of it, enjoy yourself because once the baby comes he will either wont a part or he wont either way there will be decisions to be made and that is when youll really not be able to relax. sometimes its better to get ride of the headache of a bad parent earlier than later, for the kids sake.
goodluck.

Answer 6

I went through the same exact situation. told my baby father don't call me anymore either, but I always end up calling him a couple of days after. He will call, trust me, you might have to make a few more calls, but he will call, It's going to be like that through the whole pregnancy so get use to it. He will alway throw up the fact that he didn't want the baby, and will refer to the baby as YOUR baby and not OURS.

Answer 7

Well if he is ignoring your calls because you are pregnant you don't need him. It is better he left now then in the long run. He doesn't want to face up to his responsibilities. He was there to help make the baby, but wants to haul butt when he got himself into trouble.They have programs for pregnant women if you need help. Just look into it, and Good Luck.

What about adoption?

Answer 8

He isn't calling because you told him not to call. Don't say things that you don't mean. And go ahead and get to court and get a child support order. You're going to need it.

Answer 9

since u told him not to call then maybe he has already moved on, and he's not going to come back the best thing for u is to leave him alone and just get child support....

Answer 10

Well first of all, you have to figure out what you want from him. DO you want him in your life and the baby's life? DO you want him to support you? Do you want him to stay out of it? Call him and if he doesn't pick up, leave him a long message explaining everything you feel and everything you want from him. If he's a man he will step up to it.