I'm only 15, have never had a bf and yet just from my first crush and this guy that likes me, I learned alot. Enough to know that I'm not really ready for a bf yet and should focus on more i portant things in life...like school. Yea, but is it possible to have your heart broken even when when you never been in a relationship with that person?
2006-10-26 02:53:48 · 20 answers · asked by K 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Yes, you can. Just think of all the teen boys or teen girls with crushes on their celebrity idols who really are never going to show up at their door to whisk them away and love only them forever....the way they dream.
Love can be one-sided because the other person doesn't know you love them, is not interested in the person who loves them, or is seriously involved with someone else and isn't look for/at anybody else.
That does not mean that your feelings for that person are not real or that they don't matter. They do. You're just limited in some way or another from having that love expressed to him and in having his feelings returned to you.
2006-10-26 03:48:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of couse it is. Just because you never had a boyfriend before that does not mean that you do not have any feelings. For example, finding out a guy that you like does not like you can lead to a broken heart because you are upset that the feeling is not returned back to you.
It is a good thing you know that you are not ready to have a boyfirend and I am very proud of you to admit to it.
2006-10-26 19:09:57 · answer #2 · answered by Dont Ask 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is..You are at a tender age and it is good that you realise you are too young for this. Enjoy your youth and do something worthwhile now, because this time in your life can never come back. There are no second chances. Having boyfriends is a natural part of growth so do not be too in a hurry to be there. Your time will come. You will be there too, but this is not the right time.. Everything has a time of its own. Savour each phase of your life, as you should, so you will not have any regrets later.
2006-10-26 09:58:39 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You may feel heart broken at the time, but later on you will realize it is all part of the growing up experience and you will be able to laugh at it and help other youngsters as you recall these experiences in your life
2006-10-26 11:03:56 · answer #4 · answered by tracey s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, that's why it's called a crush... because it crushes you emotionally.
I had a huge crush on a guy when I was 15-17. Had big dreams of family and stuff. He didn't like me back except as a friend, but I tried for 2 years to get him to like me back. I'm truthfully still not completely over him and it's been 20 years...
Good luck...
2006-10-26 10:11:31 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥♥ Mommy to Two ♥♥♥ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am very proud of you because you should know that you need to wait. I got married too young and have already been through many obstacles(not that I regret becoming a Mother of two wonderful boys because they are God's gift) in my life:seperation, going through it, having to become a responsible mother at at very young age, and facing consequences. Now a days it is very hard for a young girl like you to realize that, so be proud of yourself!
2006-10-26 10:15:53 · answer #6 · answered by marisol2626 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your heart cannot be broken till its attached to someone else's heart. What you feel now is your heart reminding you that it exists.. intact. You cant feel pain from something that dont exist! Take care.
2006-10-26 10:18:51 · answer #7 · answered by love you 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are called crushes...and the name speaks for itself...if it didn't hurt..it would be called something NICE!! Glad to see you have a good head on your shoulders...CAN you talk to my 16 yr old daughter? Tell her to stop looking for a boyfriend and FOCUS on school?! LOL
2006-10-26 10:01:42 · answer #8 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes it is. You sound like a girl who knows herself pretty well and I applaud you for making the decision you have.
2006-10-26 13:09:10 · answer #9 · answered by TheresaE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont even know what to say to you yet your complaining about your 15 and no boyfriend but here you have someone that likes you and what you want to focus on other things mabye I didnt get what you were saying but what i got is a stupid question not even a question. Wut ever
2006-10-26 10:37:30 · answer #10 · answered by Yung Top City Dyme 13 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋