i've just started a new relationship but my old ones had a kind of pattern. i have alot of love to give, and i like making love alot. they would start off sweet and then get possesive, jealous and controlling and think i'd be the way i am with them, with anyone. even though i'm a one woman girl. Now i've met someone who's sweet and caring and just amazing. he makes me smile all the time. i think he could be the one to finally let my guard down with. do you think i should do something to change the way i am, or just let it flow like i want to and be with him.
2006-10-26 02:19:12 · 4 answers · asked by maria h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Be yourself and enjoy your life! Good Luck.
2006-10-26 02:21:08 · answer #1 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all congratualtions...I too have recently found "The one" after years and years of failed relationships and even a failed marriage. I am just like you and I try very hard to keep a wall up around my heart to avoid being hurt, but in my experince with the guy Im with, I know he is the one and he feels the same way...I think when you do truly find the one you won't even have to ask yourself if you should change because you will just know that it's the right thing to do...also Im not sure if changing who you are is ever a good idea, but opening your heart and being receptive to love is the best thing you can do because as well all know...."it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all!"
2006-10-26 02:27:07 · answer #2 · answered by euchre_princess_23 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I WOULDN'T SAY HE THE ONE SO FAST GIVE IT TIME CAUSE IN THE END YOU MIGHT BE THE ONE WITH THE PAIN..... SO BE CAREFUL AND SWEET BUT DONT LET HIM CONTROL YOU .................
2006-10-26 02:25:02 · answer #3 · answered by ManImSadINeedAHug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no do a little more testing than ..
2006-10-26 02:21:15 · answer #4 · answered by ♥LADY INDIA♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋