we both have children from exs my bf dont have a nice thing to say about my ex. nor do he like me asking him anything.but id not do somthing if it upset my bf. i knew about his children as he did mine we have 2 children 2gther also i am aware they should discuss there children when needed and keep it polite. i dont agree that she phones him 2 help her with stuff eg. we picked his children up they talked a bit at door i was in car yes that bugs me but i have to deal with it... the fact that he went back to help her with her car really bugged me was upset i was sat in car like an idiot thinking woah hold up aint that her bfs job? not mine? he is a nice person and likes to help any1 but call be jealous or watever but i cant sit there and watch that and say notthing.yes be polite and say no.. it would be like if i asked my ex hey can u show me what dial the washer goes on.. would i be right do ask my ex that? when i have my own bf to ask .. im i just jealous or messed up i love him to bits
2006-10-26 02:00:59 · 8 answers · asked by x_o_x_sam_x_o_x 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well hes always going to be tied with his ex as will you...but there is no need for him to talk to her unless its about the children....make sure you let both of them know how you feel & if they dont like it...u dont need him!
2006-10-26 02:04:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he told you to deal with it, when he leaves you in the car to talk to her, get out and walk up there and become a part of the solution. You understand the fundamentals that you and he both need to deal with ex's because of children, so... Do you trust him? If you love him and trust him than stand up to him and tell him how it's hurting your feelings that he's trying fo be friend with her and go from there.
2006-10-26 02:27:51 · answer #2 · answered by puzzleraspie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You boyfriend is insecure with himself because he has to belittle your ex to make himself feel good. I would not stay in that situation because soon he will be telling you that since he takes care of your children - they do not need their dad. Been there/done that. Your kids still need their dad even if he would not pay cs. Let it go and find someone that would be fair about the whole situation.
2006-10-26 02:11:24 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He told you "deal with it"??? How would he like to deal with an iron skillet upside his head? That's what I'd do to him. He's playing you for a fool and you don't need that. You may love him, but unless he alters his habits and attitude, you need to kick his sorry as* to the curb where the rest of the garbage goes.
2006-10-26 02:09:14 · answer #4 · answered by mesierens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what,as long as there are kids involved she will forever be a part of your life in one way or another, as your ex will be part of your life. But a line has to be drawn somewhere, if it is something that her boyfriend can help her with, then your boyfriend shouldn't get involved. (like the car) but when it comes to the kids, he needs to be there for them.
2006-10-26 02:07:01 · answer #5 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of meaning he's merely too enormous of a dick to break up with you on your face. yet, yeah yuns are broken up.. and to boot. your too good for him if hes gonna handle you like that!! merely ignore approximately him once you notice him and act like he would not even exist.
2016-11-25 21:34:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats stupid
tell him okay im dealing with it im leaving
2006-10-26 02:03:12 · answer #7 · answered by lovable110 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right and he is wrong..
He is treating you badly...
2006-10-26 02:04:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋