i miss my ex boyfriend so much..we broke up about a year ago because i went back to my babys father, which was so dumb, but now im not with the babys father, i want my ex boyfriend back...but the problem is hes now with his babys mother again...i never see him anymore but we were so in love and i loved his kid and he loved mine...this is my question...should i go to his house and put a note in his car giving him my new number...or will he think im a stalker....i dont know what to do....please help me!!!!! i need some advice...im so depressed about this
2006-10-26 01:27:28 · 20 answers · asked by ╣Sexy ♥ Momma╠ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
thanks guys....i know u think im a homewreckere but im not thats why asked you guys before i did anything...i dont wanna make their household a living hell...and im not selfish at all...so thanks for your advice
2006-10-26 01:59:38 · update #1
If he's with someone you should respect that. I know what it's like to be in your position of regretting leaving someone (been there) and it really hurts, but would you want some woman trying to come around and take him from you? He may be happy in this relationship and trying to break it up would only cause resentment. There's a lot to consider here. Think carefully and make choices you can be proud of and that show respect for yourself and others. Good luck with it all!!!
2006-10-26 01:32:47 · answer #1 · answered by DivaDynamite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy, what a soap opera. You have a kid, he has a kid, you have a new guy, he has a girl. It's a case of we all want what we can't or don't have. Once we get it we want something else. You know the saying The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. You sound like you need to get some problems worked out first.
NO NO NO NO Don't go to his house and MESS up his life simply because you want to play house with him for a little while. He may be really trying to work out his problems with his baby's momma too. If he is, and then you try to leave a note at his house or on his car and his girlfriend finds it........I can't even think about the new problems this will create. Obviously you loved the guy you were with enough to have his baby, so try to work it out.
2006-10-26 01:33:57 · answer #2 · answered by Lori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love doesn't doubt, and love doesn't change it's mind. Whatever the reason for your getting back with your child's father and splitting with him in the first place needs to be gone over in your mind. There are two children and three other people this affects besides you. If you leave a note on this guys car, what happens if she finds it? What if he gets very upset with you? What if he is happy and you take that away from him? What if the one your with finds out how you feel?
Poof, your alone, and none of them care how you feel. Work at the relationship your in. Consider the kids first.
2006-10-26 01:40:38 · answer #3 · answered by Hatem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should not go and do anything because you had your chance and like a real woman take responsability,,,, how about if you were with your husband then you would of never thought of looking for him,,, if he realy loves you the way you think then he will leave his wife and look for you but for now you just have to wait ,,,,
2006-10-26 01:31:43 · answer #4 · answered by Airforcepink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is really meant to be, God will make it happen... soulmates can love eachother as kids, and meet back up 5 10 15 even 30 years from then and everything will work out. So, if he's your soulmate, you will end up back together one way or another. Just let time take its course.
2006-10-26 01:30:15 · answer #5 · answered by bevey_jane263 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's almost always a mistake if it didn't work out the first time it is unlikely it will work out again. I wouldn't interfer now that he is back in a relationship if it is really meant then y'all will accidentally run into each other eventually. but i wouldn't mess up a good thing just because you are lonesome
2006-10-26 01:45:07 · answer #6 · answered by lovable110 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. When the 2 of you broke up it was your fault because you wanted to return to your baby's father. He moved on with his life, so leave him alone. You are very selfish and you are the culprit of your own misery
2006-10-26 01:30:29 · answer #7 · answered by classy&sassy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
life's a ***** huh? But a little note can't hurt, just don't let the baby mamma find it.
But then again, you may be trying to break up a happy family, so you shouldn't mettle. He may be happy because his daughter is with her mom
2006-10-26 01:31:07 · answer #8 · answered by cjordan23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out his status first -- whether he's engaged with his former partner or not anymore; otherwise you'd seem to destroy another relationship. Once you proved that he's not actually engaged, then take your shot and find out if he'd come back to you. Otherwise, stop, let it go and move on with your life. You seemed attractive by your screen name. It should not be difficult for you to find another partner.
2006-10-26 01:36:35 · answer #9 · answered by Mike N. D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do the note thing. call him meet up and talk bout things. but if he's still in love with you y not leave his gf and go with you, y hide or go around the bush?
2006-10-26 01:31:35 · answer #10 · answered by boricuaspot21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋