hi all,
i recently split with my ex bf, and i think ive been doing a pretty ok job of getting over it and trying to move forward.
It's been about 7 weeks now and i've come to a point where im no longer sad or regretful, but nor am i really empowered or inspired!
should i wait it out or try something to really get back into life??
please help, its greatly appreciated
thanks
2006-10-26 01:26:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
...and sorry, jesus isn't my style :)
2006-10-26 01:37:11 · update #1
fall in love with life?
my answer is, fall in love with the one who gave you life...
fall in love with Jesus.
no, not religion. no, not rules and regulations, no, not judgemental hypocrytes. i said Jesus.
Worked for me and many a Christian. it will work for you.
He gives you a PASSION for LIFE, a passion for PEOPLE. a reason to live.
email me: ima.musical.bubble@gmail.com
2006-10-26 01:34:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that you are at a point where you have dealt with the loss and are ready to find something new and different then yes.
But you must do a cleansing first of your spirit.
It is time to have a girls night, sleepover and talk the night away. Good music to listen to, lots of snacks or finger foods...Just friends being silly and having a good time.
I feel this will lift your spirit and make feel happy. There is nothing like good friends to share all our
stories with good and bad...
You need to get rid of all the memorabilia that you two had together, pictures, ticket stubs, dried flowers. etc. whatever was yours as a couple and throw out the trash.
This chapter of your life has ended and you need to clean house...
Once you have done this, you will start to feel much better.
Maybe it is time for a new hair style or a new piece
of clothing... Something that gives you a bit of a change...
You are doing a great job, but don't worry.. 7 weeks is not a long time to mend your heart...
When you get to the point that you want to bust our and do something exciting, then you will be ready to take on the challenge.
Our emotions take a beating with a breakup and it effects every aspect of our psyche.... It will all come together... with a bang...
2006-10-26 02:14:16 · answer #2 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there... it sucks.
What worked for me was holding tight to my sense of humour. Going out with or visiting with fun friends, watching funny movies, doing hobbies. I've heard volunteering helps some people get on with their lives... the whole helping others helps you thing. If you are an avid reader...read some inspiring books about people overcoming obstacles or go for a walk in nature and focus on tiny details (I find that really works for me too when work gets me down and I need to love life again)
Good Luck.
(Maybe, also think of what gave you joy when you were really young... watching cartoons, playing ball... whatever.)
2006-10-26 01:49:16 · answer #3 · answered by Gigi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely, for me, the only way i will fall in love with existence is that if I fall in love with a guy, by way of fact different than having a guy, I even have no longer something going for me. My boyfriend perfect now's my existence.
2016-10-16 10:30:17 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will pass. Do you realized that when you split from a relationship that you go through similar stages as if there was a death? You'll go through the stages and come out just fine on the other side. Don't try to rush it....it'll happen when your ready for it too and you will know the difference.
2006-10-26 01:39:00 · answer #5 · answered by Rhonda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a holiday or start a short course that you'd enjoy or take up a new sport --- life is full of inspiration, get out there and find what works for you, and enjoy experimenting until you find your passion!!
2006-10-27 21:35:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU DID THE BREAKUP, THAT SHOULD BE EMPOWERING, YOU SAW SOMETHING THAT SHOWED YOU THIS MAN WASN'T RIGHT FOR YOU!! A LOT OF WOMAN SIT AND WAIT, AND KEEP TRYING TO MAKE IT RIGHT, ONLY TO FIND OUT (YEARS LATER) THAT IT WAS A MISTAKE! YOU SHOULD BE VERY PROUD OF YOURSELF, YOUR ONE SMART COOKIE, YOU GO GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-26 01:50:30 · answer #7 · answered by mamaexfour 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋