I have 3 younger sisters and they bother me to death! They make the bad side of me come out and I start to get angry real fast when they pluck that nerve. So I was wondering what ya'll do when your sibilings pester you to the point that you fly off the handle. And what do you do to calm down later on?
2006-10-26 01:20:33 · 11 answers · asked by Tina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'd kill them with kindness... Hug and kiss them constantly and play with their hair and pinch their cheeks and tell them how cute they are.
Drag them along with you when you go to the store and hold their hand and tell them this is so much fun.. especially when you turn the shopping trip into 3 hours.....
Go into their rooms and sit on their beds and say, I love you guys so much and pour on the honey... Talk to them about everything that happens to you during the day.... interrupt their TV time with lets talk. I am so glad you are my sister... we are really connecting... Do this for at least one week....
I mean pour it on...
If they don't run in the other direction when they see you after this, I will be surprised.....
2006-10-26 01:59:46 · answer #1 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have 3 children and they are 16,12 & 8,the youngest is always getting on the oldest 2's nerves so what they do is they both go off into the boys room who is the 12 yr old and the other 2 are girls.They shut the door and ignore her when i hear her screamimg is when me being the parent steps in then i put the lil one in her room and she dont dare come out or she'll be grounded and she hates that because she cant play with her friends lol GOODLUCK!!!!
2006-10-26 01:29:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My brother makes me upset sometimes. Luckily we live three+ hours from each other. In my case, I just don't call him or take his calls until I feel ready to talk to him again. The best thing to do is to just walk away and find something to keep your mind busy. Don't give them the satisfaction of knowing they managed to pounce on that one last nerve - period.
2006-10-26 01:34:29 · answer #3 · answered by Michaela 4120 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first keep the head stay in con troll of them don't let them see you lose it or they are in con troll , make them do something they don't want to do this keeps you in the drivers seat do this calming and it will pay of its not easy but make them better kids
and in the long run a much better life for you and them ,,,,, i am a father of 5 and Ive been there good luck
2006-10-26 01:30:12 · answer #4 · answered by DAVID M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about removing yourself from the situation. Like to the privacy of your own room?
2006-10-26 01:23:21 · answer #5 · answered by shughes2000_2000 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I imagine them having a tire blow out in their car, and flipping it over 6-8 times, and I feel much better. :)
2006-10-26 01:24:50 · answer #6 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to your room and shut the door, if they still bother you watch TV or do something that lets you ignore them.
2006-10-26 01:25:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THEY ALL LOVE YOU AND ARE LOOKING FOR YUR ATTENTION!! IT ISN'T EASY BEING ADMIRED BY 3 YOUNGER SISTERS. TRY TO FIND SOMETHING TO DO WITH EACH ONE SEPARATELY. ONE LOVES TO SHOP, ONE LOVES TO DRAW, ONE LOVES SPORTS? WHATEVER.........EXPLAIN TO THEM WHAT YOUR GOING TO DO AND HOW EACH ONE WILL AT SOME POINT EACH WEEK HAVE YOUR UNDIVIDED ATTENTION!! YOU'LL BE SURPRISED HOW QUICKLY THEIR BEHAVIOR WILL CHANGE, NONE WILL WANT TO JEPORDIZE THEIR TIME WITH YOU, THUS BEING ON THEIR BEST BEHAVIOR!!
2006-10-26 01:27:31 · answer #8 · answered by mamaexfour 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I walk away from the situation....but then I do have my own home to come back to! lol
2006-10-26 01:23:37 · answer #9 · answered by huggz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm in the same sitch.
just ignore them for long enough and,after it gets worse for a while,they will stop.
2006-10-26 03:32:30 · answer #10 · answered by follow the yellow brick road:P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋