me and my boyfreind have recently split over something very silly
i have a chill and i had 2 pee outside and he saw me and he said he will never get back with me but i really love him and a think this is silly
we have been goin out 4 4 years and if he cant sit down and talk 2 me about something so silly what can i do its breaking my heart
a said 2 him i have seen you pee n it was never a big dealn he said but am a man n a said thts no an answer n he said a could hav held it in but a really couldney how can a get him 2 understand
The relationship has been fine for months and months no problems at all so a dont think there is an other reason a really think that is it :((
i have spoke 2 him the day after and all he could say was he was disgusted so what can i do a really need help here he wont answer the phone 2 me or txt me back its killin me
no it wasnt the middle of the street lol it was at nite when i was on ma way 2 a night club with friends and a had a chill :(
2006-10-26 01:17:52 · 9 answers · asked by xprincessx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I had a boyfriend who got really upset and made a big deal out of me just saying "I really gotta pee!" I could not imagine how he would have reacted if he saw me squat outside to pee. He said the word "pee" was not "lady like" Your boyfriend is being a jerk about this. Stop calling him and ignore him until he apologizes for making you upset about a perfectly normal body function.
2006-10-26 01:33:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you made a habit of doing this I undertand his view, but if it was going to be an accident.. then he is being silly. He obviously believes in a double standard for men and women... It makes me wonder what he would be like as a husband... have you seen any other red flags pop out in front of you that you have ignored...
Maybe this attitude of his has always been there, but you have ignored it.
It seems that he thinks he is a place to be judging you and that is not good... He needs to look in his own basket before he makes assumptions about you.
I think he is very very immature and stubborn and if he doesn't apologize to you for his behaviour then I would let him go.
he might have be looking for any excuse to end the relationship... this I believe was his opportunity and he took it.
I think he is done with you... face the music....
2006-10-26 01:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is being a coward and a dick. He's not splitting with you for the reason he gives. Something else is up and he's too cowardly to sit down and talk it out, so he grabs the first available excuse that paints you at fault and uses that.
I know it's breaking your heart, but you'll get over him. There's far better men out there. The least you deserve is an honest explanation, and any boy who is too cowardly to sit down face to face and say it is useless.
2006-10-26 01:21:19 · answer #3 · answered by Dirty_Idea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously thinks that peeing outside on your way to a club is a big deal... I think there is more here that you are saying or that you are aware of. This might be a good time to give yourself a break and look at the life you are living and see what changes you may want to make...with or without him. good luck
2006-10-26 01:23:55 · answer #4 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just walk away. I know it hurts he may come back once he has had time to chill. Personaly though i think if he would leave you for something as little as this then he was looking for a way out. I asked my husband what his reaction would be if i did that and apart from looking at me as if i had lost my mind said sometimes you just have to go.
2006-10-26 01:27:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is such a dud and believes himself to be from the heavens, chuck him. ask him to remain in his house and let him use the loo all by himself. ask him to take a long walk on a chilly day on a highway and dont stop to do anything. good riddence!!
2006-10-26 01:22:45 · answer #6 · answered by Alag N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face it. It's over. He only used this as a reason to break it off with you. He's been planning to break it off and couldn't find a legitimate reason, so he's using this one.
Good luck
2006-10-26 01:23:43 · answer #7 · answered by Cal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's being a total ***! I don't know how you can call a punk like that, a man!
2006-10-26 01:20:26 · answer #8 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he was on his way out before this...it just gave him the opportunity he needed...don't beat yourself up trying to fix this...its not you....
2006-10-26 01:25:08 · answer #9 · answered by willowz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋