How do u cope with the loss when a close fren suddenly pass on, and it comes so suddenly that u dun even have the chance to say goodbye.
2006-10-26 01:03:54 · 7 answers · asked by MountT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I guess, the dearly departed aren't as affected as those who are still alive. You'll need to reconcile with the fact that your friend is in a better happier place and death is a mere voyage. When a person sets sail on a 'journey', some of us may be very sad but some other people are happily waiting for his/her arrival at the other end of the journey.
2006-10-26 01:58:54 · answer #1 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You learn to live with it, Only that is not easy and that it will take time. Once you start talking about the good times that you had with him, you have accepted it, but will never forget your friend. remember death does not give you a change to say goodbye, so when you do say goodbye to a friend be sure it could be the last time. YOU WILL NEVER KNOW.
2006-10-26 08:45:27 · answer #2 · answered by B.A. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its very hard but you can do it, it may take some time, try and remember all the good memories you have of your friend. That's why its so important to keep in contact with love ones you never know when they will no longer be here.
2006-10-26 08:09:38 · answer #3 · answered by Granny 1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard I know, but just talk to other friends, remember the good times and laugh at the stupid things you did together. Keep their memory alive by talking to them and about them, as long as we are remembered with love then we never really die. You could also get in touch with a local bereavement group, who can give you lots of support. But remember, your friend would want you to be happy and is with you in spirit. Good luck and Take Care.
2006-10-26 08:12:22 · answer #4 · answered by Pauline N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found that writing a short verse and leaving it on the computer purely for myself, helped immensley. I read it occasionally and think of the good times.
Seannie.
My best friend died today, and part of me died too.
For forty-five years we were closer than brothers.
There was nothing I did not know about him -
Nor he about me.
I shall miss him.
2006-10-26 08:11:18 · answer #5 · answered by thomasrobinsonantonio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's very hard......I've been through that......I have a friend that passed on a little over a year ago.......and I still have moments where I break down into tears b/c I still miss him. I know he's in a much better place- he's not suffering anymore.......but still, it hurts when he crosses my mind and I know he's not here anymore......just take things slow.....don't repress memories, enjoy reliving them.......
2006-10-26 08:07:31 · answer #6 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the life continues my dear , is a hard step to give , but necesary for your own good .
2006-10-26 08:06:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋