How would you know if they're in denial, if they have never experienced it before?
Any tests that can be done to find out? (apart from jealousy-gets very jealous when I mention other girls).
Has started acting weird towards me, when I ask why, says she's tired, has a lot on her mind,feeling a bit down. Has only gone weird with me, no one else. When I ask if she wants me not to get in touch with her for awhile i.e.reply to her txts/not meet up, she ignores the question. Is she implying yes?
Whats up? Could I have done something (as a bloke we're not always aware of this!)?
2006-10-26 01:03:12 · 8 answers · asked by Machine 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just want all views please!
We're very close, (has said we'll only remain friends after we kissed once). I encourage her to get with someone she likes (always says there is no one, tells me she never pulls, etc), we chat about everything, meet regulary, would rather meet me than mates(obviously wouldn’t blow them off!) etc...
p.s. she always txts me first/gets in contact with me (90%)
Would there be any physical actions (apart from kissing/sex)?
Would staring into each others eyes while smiling over the table mean anything?
How can I get her to open up-she says there's nothing there. What's the best way to play it?
2006-10-26 01:03:55 · update #1
She says there's nothing there when I mention this.
2006-10-26 01:21:16 · update #2
Whatever she says is what you go by. If she said she is not interested then accept her answers. Don't take no for yes. Get in trouble that way. Just tell her, alone with no one else there, that you know or believe that she wants you and that if she didn't why is she behaving the way that she does. Tell her you will give her a time frame to make up her mind or the two of you will just be friends. She will start to think seriously about it and keep her intrigued. If she does not give a favorable reply, move on.
2006-10-26 01:11:54 · answer #1 · answered by kyle g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend, she is head over heels inlove with you. All of that looking into each others eyes whilst at the dinner table is a clear sign that she loves you but doesn't want to ruin the friendship. If you love (which i take it, you do), be gentle with her. Women are like flowers. We are to handled with care and nurtured into glorious flowers that spread love wherever we go. She's denying you because there is a possibility that she doesn't want to get hurt by you. Take it easy and let her open up to you.
Asking her if she loves you isn't going to help matters much. Let her feel that you are there but that she needs to come to you. She might have been through some tough times as a child and now she doesn't want to get hurt or even push you away because of it.
But try the following:
Sit her down one day and just let her talk about herself. You'll see how much is said without even saying a word. You'll be suprised how much you can pick up from the vibes she's letting off. You also have to be open and honest with her so that she can feel she's not being trapped.
2006-10-26 08:39:16 · answer #2 · answered by venus101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres only one way to find out for sure! Ask her! it sounds to me like she has got the hots 4 u!
Dont ask her infront of others she mite be embarrased about liking a friend!
Just ask her!
2006-10-26 08:18:04 · answer #3 · answered by ema 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... you're describing me. And yes-- I'm i love with the guy. I want him more than he can possibly imagine..... But I don't want to screw up his life that he has now. So I tell myself there's nothing there... it's just sex. But I've fallen.... in love..... hard....
2006-10-26 08:38:54 · answer #4 · answered by who me? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked this question already! For Gods sake sit her down and talk to her.
2006-10-26 08:09:21 · answer #5 · answered by F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has strong feelings for you. As simple as that, talk to her, even if you have to drag it out of her word by word. Girls are like that, i know i am one of them.
2006-10-26 08:08:48 · answer #6 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend ONE WEEK with no contact ... then see what happens. I bet she calls you *s*.
2006-10-26 08:09:41 · answer #7 · answered by Duchess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have one similar. will find out and let you know.
2006-10-26 08:07:16 · answer #8 · answered by Alag N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋