I want this guy.... I've seen him for a few years now.... He's in my thoughts a lot. We're both trying to break it off..... and I see him in everything.... I can't cook with out thinking of him.... I went out last night and there's a guy that looks like him-- my dreams-- filled with him..... I don't want him out of my life.
2006-10-26 01:01:54 · 8 answers · asked by who me? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Get therapy!
2006-10-26 01:03:42 · answer #1 · answered by huggz 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling all to well....I'm a guy who was dating this woman and she has broke it off. Although she won't admit it, I know she's seeing someone else. I'm am toyally heartbroken and devastated. It seems everytime I turn around, there is another sign of the times we had. Example: I've noticed more women by her name, it seems every time I turn the radio on, I hear songs by bands that we went to see this summer. I would do anything in the world to get her back, but she hardly even speaks to me anymore. It just doesn't seem fair.
2006-10-26 08:16:45 · answer #2 · answered by Stratus_99_1998 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take this is the married man you spoke off in a previous question.
If he won't leave is wife for you there is little you can do but either carry on seeing him and suffer in silence, stop seeing him or tell his wife, though she probably knows,and hope she divorces him and he can be with you.
Only the 2nd answer is truly good for you. Do not get suckered by the idea that your emotions cannot lie,they can. You and him are not in love any more than you can be in bed with someone if they are not there.He is with his wife not you if he wanted to be with you and respected his wife and child he would divorce her.
This is all wrong and as usual with these situations as adults we try to convince ourselves the answer is complicated and hard to reach but really it isn't. What makes it difficult is that as we get older it is harder to admit we are wrong. The days grow shorter as does our life, and what we have to remember is that one rule applies as when we were children.
Want isn't get.
2006-10-26 18:27:04 · answer #3 · answered by Stephen F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww, I think that you and this guy should sit down and actually have an open conversation about this. Communication is one of the most important parts about a relationship. Without it, everything is hollow. Tell him how you really feel. And keep an open mind.
2006-10-26 08:05:23 · answer #4 · answered by bevey_jane263 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said it yourself, you dont want him out of your life... so of course your thinking of him every second. if he wants to break up, you have to let go. if he wants you, get back together!!!!!! if you do end up going separate ways, you have to stop feeling sorry for a relationship that didnt work. dont waste precious time on things that only hold you back in life
2006-10-26 10:08:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont want him out of your life? dont leave him. say as much and be straight. see wonders work if you are true to your feelings and can convey as much to the one who is in your thoughts.
2006-10-26 08:06:18 · answer #6 · answered by Alag N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a grip!
2006-10-26 08:03:04 · answer #7 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not emotional... you're obsessed. Bad news for you that.
2006-10-26 08:04:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋