I've got a friend who fancies me but he's kind of shy to court me. Friends in the group do tease us a lot. Initially I did not like him because I was in love with another guy then and he was dating others too. Chances just made it when one night we started a normal converstation and I realised we both click and just had hours and hours of converstation. This started April 2006 and still happening until now. I no longer like the other guy because I realised my friend is better. He's shy to ask me out although there were indirect hints before that he wanted to ask me out for ie movie but I would always come out with indirect answers of NO.. but i really want to go out with him too - just the two of us. =) im scared to fall for him but I think I am falling in love with him now. Im scared to break the friendship and im trying to forget my feelings for him but it's hard coz we belong to the same group of friends. byt the way, we're both international students in london so freedom.
2006-10-26 00:46:02 · 10 answers · asked by alet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ok.the deal here is(as i think)he's a very sensitive,shy,caring guy.it would be nice if you ask him out for a date.it shouldn't be an actual date,just a typical study in or movie in your dorm & pizza afterwards would do.don't be nervous as that would make him nervous as well,just act as you would do when you uasually around him but with a tiny bit of difference which only he can see,like complimenting him or teasing him,try something fun together to get him in the mood(not in a 'i wanna make out with you' way),but casually,hope this helped.good luck! :)
2006-10-26 00:53:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My fiance was my BEST friend for 4 years, and i would have never thought out of all the people i would have fallen for, it would have been him. Now, we're getting married and i am pregnant with his baby. Come to find out, he is the only person I've ever met with the same blood type as me. O-! If I would have gotten pregnant with anyone else, I would have had a miscarriage, because of RH. I knew he liked me since the day we met, but I always thought it would ruin our friendship. I'm glad I made the choice to ask him out. He would have never asked me first. I love him more than anything in the world now! I think you should give it a shot, and if you two are truely friends, nothing could ruin it!!!
2006-10-26 00:51:14 · answer #2 · answered by bevey_jane263 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
men might want to continually ask the girl out. yet till now you even imagine about asking him out, you want to charm to close for particular that he likes you in that way. reason the in basic terms way issues would get ruined is that if he doesn't have those emotions for you.
2016-12-05 06:08:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend and companion is the love of my life. When we met, we had other commitments. We started off with great conversations, thought alike, spent time talking a lot while staying busy in our lives. Finally, one day, we acknowledged that we liked each other so much. It became love. We continue to have those great times talking and laughing and loving life with each other. GO OUT WITH HIM. :-)
2006-10-26 00:53:41 · answer #4 · answered by happykat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most great relationships start with the 2 people being good friends. Don't be afraid. This sounds like a very good thing for you. Go with your heart.
2006-10-26 00:49:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
People say that friendship is the best basis for any relationship. You sound like you already have it bad for this guy so don't try to deny your feelings. He has already indicated that he is interested so why don't you give your relationship a chance.
Good luck!
2006-10-26 00:58:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. Maintain the understanding that no matter what we will be friends. Just be respectful no matter what and if it doesn't work then you won't have the hard feelings.
2006-10-26 00:49:56 · answer #7 · answered by kyle g 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Best friends make best couples too.So,don't be scared.If you are falling in love then don't stop yourself.Start giving him hints.He'll ask you.
2006-10-26 01:08:41 · answer #8 · answered by Giggles 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should express ur feeling!!! it's not gonna be okay...hiding ur true feeling bout him??? if u really care about ur realtionship...u should tell him what u feel...be honest!
2006-10-26 00:53:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
DONT DO IT! IF YOU WERE FRIENDS YOU WILL MESS THINGS UP SO BAD! FRIEND RELATIONSHIPS NEVER WORK!
2006-10-26 00:49:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋