I'm an average joe....and I still have no girlfriend....Many said that I look gorgeous but I still doubt about it....
2006-10-26 00:32:42 · 17 answers · asked by Cute_Guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
women like confidence. it doesnt mean u have to be one of those hillarious, always center of attention, clever guys (infact that can alot of the time put us off)... but you need to be comfortable in your own shoes if you know what i mean. learn to love yourself, or else nobody else will be able to love you. Average Joe's are usually better coz they arent up themselves, so see it as a good thing!
just be your personal best. dont get the latest haircuts and buy the latest male fashions, and freak out about how much you earn. none of thats important. find out what YOU like. ask your hairdresser how your hair would best suit YOUR OWN face. not neccessarily whats in. wear what YOU like (if you have no idea whatsoever and look goofy, then just ask a girl mate to help you out, but only buy what you feel comfortable in). gettting your appearance comfortable and as "you" as you possible can, will really help. coz if you feel good and comfy then a woman will notice your relaxed and feel more welcomed and relaxed in your presence.
as far as your personality goes? everyone knows what is good and what isnt. Just take a look at yourself. not critically, just introspectively, and if theres something about yourself that really puts you off or makes you upset (anger problem/stuttering/gossiping/sleezy) whatever, start thinking about how you can change that, but remember to be yourself. when a woman talks to you, be honest with them. dont try to impress them... just be a gentleman. dont try to meet the worlds expectations of what it is to be a man (mucho, sexually alive, smart and rich good looker)... but be what you feel is right.
the kind of bait you use will determine the kind of fish you attract/catch. if your superficial and stuck up, you will attract a model with no brains and a selfish attitude. if you are a sooky boy who is so introverted they just seem stand offish, if you ever attract anyone, they will be insecure, like minded people. if you just be yourself, you will attract those who most suit you. and you will have alot of fun :-)
2006-10-26 00:59:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, looks help but if you don't have a real personality then even good looks will not conquer girls.
Besides you need to keep in shape, be full of interests, not only sports and sitting in front a TV.
Travel so that you can be more open minded( leave the US for travelling) if you can.
I rather be with someone that can talk about almost everything and that is not hooked on only certain arguments.
Having a car and doing the same things like going to a fast food, movie or a game, becomes quite boring. You don't need to be the same as others but you need to transmit an interest that is not only sexual but something that you can both enjoy now and in the future.
2006-10-26 00:42:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
By not giving a sh**. Don't live your life to impress others. I'm a 27 year old woman. I'm very good looking but all I had throughout my twenties were giys who treated me like crap because I use to try hard to impress. ..I realized when I stopped giving a **** I started putting myself first and treating myself better guess what happened? ?? They basically started worshiping me. You treat yourself as a priority and people will start to see you that way.
2015-12-12 16:44:24 · answer #3 · answered by Luna F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you call yourself "cute guy" you don't really think you are not attractive, Maybe it is not your looks, but you personality!! or maybe you are a bad kisser, or maybe you move too fast, or maybe your "member" is too small! I'm sure what ever it is, you'll find a solution. Post you pic. on the web, that should find you a grlfrnd real soon!!
2006-10-26 04:02:54 · answer #4 · answered by Crystal A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress in whatever clothing is most flattering to your natural body type. And wear clothes that fit your properly, neither too large or too small. Comb your hair and wear a little bit of natural looking make-up.
2016-03-28 08:04:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
women like sensible men...strong but not dominating..and women dont like guys who look and sound too desperate...women also tend to fall in love with their ears..so it wud be good if you can make intelligent and good conversation,,but not a sweet talker..and just be yourself coz sooner or later you wud find the eone who wud appreciate you and love you all the more!! all the best..
2006-10-26 00:43:47 · answer #6 · answered by roddur 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make yourself noticed. Try to be more sociable. If you have been told that you are attractive then more power to you. You have it. You have to unleash it. If you are attracted to a girl ask her out to lunch or a movie.
2006-10-26 00:40:17 · answer #7 · answered by MIA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To start if you don't have confidence in yourself why would expect anyone else to have it for you. Be yourself & beleive in yourself. Show no matter what that you are that great person you know you are.Soon that special girl will see those gualities.
2006-10-26 00:35:51 · answer #8 · answered by "karma" 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of the green hair...and make yourself a million, that always attracts em.
2006-10-26 00:35:02 · answer #9 · answered by Ahwell 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could try hitting the racks,, ie lifting weights.. it only takes about 3 mos to buff up a bit, girls like that allot. join a gym and ask for advice from the big guys,, they love to give advice.
2006-10-26 00:36:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋