2006-10-26 00:10:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, first off, if you don't like it....whatever they have to say don't mean jack. If they don't like you for it, they're too stupid to be your friend. You are your own person man. Don't let anyone make you any different, you know what you like and you know what you want....so if someone tries to tell you you're a loser because of it? They can kiss your alkdjfalsd, because they aren't nobody! They're just like you, a human being, with a personality of your own, so if they can't handle it...oh well, there are people that can handle your personality and accept you for who you are....they aren't your friend if they don't accept that you may or may not want to do what they want.
For example, I don't smoke weed, it ain't my thing, but i have friends who do, and they ask me if i want to....i just say nah man...not my thing. IF they b*tch about it and try to punk me out, then they're automatically not my damn friend anymore, cause if they can't respect me, then they don't need to be around me. Fortunately my friends are cool, and they just say 'aight' and we roll on bout our business. Best way to fight peer pressure, is just know who you are, and stick to it, don't let them CON you into somethin you DON'T wanna do cause they won't like you....they're not god..they sure as hell ai'nt really important (family...yea it's a difficult scenario, but then you have to look at what's right and what's wrong), so as far as you're concerned if it don't feel right to you...then DON'T DO IT!
2006-10-26 00:29:11 · answer #1 · answered by Dennis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become a leader not a follower. It takes having a good self esteem and being assertive as opposed to being aggressive or passive. Because most people bow to peer pressure then maybe it would not be too difficult...
2006-10-26 00:14:45 · answer #2 · answered by mark2zephyr 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 23:35:48 · answer #3 · answered by mauzon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By simply asking this question you eliminate any doubts as to the strengths you possess or do not possess. You are most likely a spinless puke afraid of your shadow. Get some balls about ya boy and just say no!!!!!
2006-10-26 00:27:01 · answer #4 · answered by wise owl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
know who you really are, be proud of yourself and what you can do. Stick to good moral values and you be the positive influence on others. Listen to your heart (the quiet voice)
2006-10-26 00:12:45 · answer #5 · answered by suzanne_sauls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do something goo which u like like listening to romantic songs etc.
2006-10-26 02:07:10 · answer #6 · answered by abeeksha0307 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on why you are being subject to it.
2006-10-26 00:13:21 · answer #7 · answered by bogus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur self u can do it. And think about your goals.
2006-10-26 00:19:33 · answer #8 · answered by SuWizzle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be secure in being yourself. if you have to do things that you have to question to please others than don't do them, you will be glad you did!
2006-10-26 00:15:09 · answer #9 · answered by lilplaytoi1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by saying no.
2006-10-26 00:12:59 · answer #10 · answered by Politia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋