I love him and one day it can be like 'wow, this is so amazing.' he blows my mind, is a great friend, romantic, passionate, loving, great in bed lol. then the next day he can be making me cry. because i feel so much for him. because i think it's going to be that way the next day. i build myself up and he crashes me back down. gets upset with me over nothing, like if i come home late, or i call too much or too little. one day he was upset with me and the next day i needed some space because he talks like i wreck everything even over these little things. then the day after he goes 'obviously you dont want to talk to me anymore' but i so do. as long as he's happy. but he drains me for a few days and then everything is nice again.
2006-10-24 23:53:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i would walk sounds like he has issues he needs to sort out good luck
2006-10-24 23:58:31 · answer #1 · answered by kitten6444 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds hugely insecure and could do with some psychological help, people who are like that try and cut you off from friends and family so that they are the only focus in your life, that's very unhealthy, and how can everything be your fault? He is eating away at your self confidence. You can't fix this man, as much as you love him you cannot change him, and nothing you do will ever be good enough in his eyes. Finish this relationship and encourage him to seek counselling, who knows, perhaps in the future when he has sorted his issues out you could have the "perfect" relationship.
2006-10-25 07:14:53 · answer #2 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he has a past he is not letting go of an you are paying for it. maybe he will work through these problems or maybe he will always have you pay for what has happened. how much of this can you stand by? put something in writting for him an tell him exactly how you are feeling about all this. an also put some encouraging words , like when you are feeling down an life feels negitive...think of my love being the one positive thing that will always be. good luck...
2006-10-25 08:14:41 · answer #3 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has some serious issues to solve. Unfortunately he is taking that out on you (or he may be jealous of you for some reason). But either way, you need to distance yourself from him until he can get his act together to where he doesn't put you down all the time. If it mean breaking up with him so you can be happy then so be it.
2006-10-25 07:36:55 · answer #4 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to sit and talk to him about what is happenning and i know it can be so difficult because he wouldn't accept, that behaviour of him is not right no one can live with someone that one day is nice and the other is so bad.
i understand you believe me, is moreless my situation because at the end of the day you love him very much, but i have learn that sometimes we have to be strong in life and confront the situations and god will help you
good luck
2006-10-25 07:03:14 · answer #5 · answered by alfa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, he's acting like an idiot with absolutely no brains.
2006-10-25 07:39:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he has problems and you should wait until he solves them
2006-10-25 07:18:37 · answer #7 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel like im like ur bf....set some rules...
2006-10-25 06:58:40 · answer #8 · answered by Random Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋