My boyfriend who I have been with for two months, is constantly sulking, which may be my fault, i don't know he never tells me anything, i think he has a self-absorbed-disorder lol...anyway when i go out with my friends, i have no problem meeting new people & getting dates, so should I stay with this guy : liam, or should i date and find someone more for me, and also give him the chance to find someone who doesn't make him sulk...if its me with the problem, otherwise he would sulk with anyone i guess...
Look at my previous questions for evidence if you please....
2006-10-24 23:29:08 · 23 answers · asked by Tamara 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
YES!
he is a miserable fvcker, he will bring everyone down around him.
You seem like a girl that just wants to have fun and smile, so go and do it.
every Q you have put on here is about how miserable he is or hes angry whatever! god! what a drag! he is old b4 his time, you aint! go out and have some fun!!!
xXx
2006-10-24 23:46:50 · answer #1 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think back to you other boy friends and ask yourself did they sulk around you. If the answer is no then it's not you with the problem, unless you keep letting him know that you go out with your mates and can get dates then that is bound to upset him.
If you don't do that then he is the one with the problem so move on you are too young to be tying yourself to someone who can't have fun.
At your age you should be having all the fun you can pack into a day life is too short to be miserable.
2006-10-24 23:38:15 · answer #2 · answered by glo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who continually sulks is not a good long term investment. Find yourself someone who can take the rough with the smooth without having to sulk all the time. Sulkers are childish.
2006-10-24 23:37:53 · answer #3 · answered by veg_rose 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find out why he sulks. address the reasons and stick on, if u can. otherwise, you might soon find out you've been thru too many guys trying to pick a "non-sulking" date. we all sulk at one time or the other. or are u perfect?
2006-10-24 23:49:45 · answer #4 · answered by oshokhameye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my g/f used to sulk a lot , confront him about it calmly. It is not your fault - you are only thinking that because sulking is a way to try and guilt trip somebody. its an attention thing, if he is not worth breaking him out of this behaviour,
get rid
2006-10-24 23:36:25 · answer #5 · answered by Mr Gravy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would drive me bananas if my hubby just sulked around me all the time. That sort of behavior really can't help you feel too great... find someone new that smiles with his heart and with his eyes everytime he sees you.
2006-10-24 23:33:43 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to know why he is sulking? ,,,,, do you really want to know?
If so then just be prepared for a grilling.
Woman can give everything, they can say everything, they can even do everything. but they never NEVER give a man what he needs.
woman always say, you dont understand me, you do know me. Has any girl ever stopped to think, hang on? i dont know anything about him, im so self absorbed that i have been thinking of myself.
The question of what do women what, was answered a long time ago, men know what you want and we do understand you, thats why we shut up when things are wrong, thats why we feel within ourselves, we dont speak out, we dont tell you how we feel, because we know that it is all about you. The second we say the words ME, I, MY, MYSELF, BUT, and NO woman go off and say your always thinking about youself.
So why dont woman learn to understand men. when we feel things, we lose your respect. You start thinking he is to soppy and cant take care of me.
I was in love with this amazing girl, we split because she decided after iu had told her how i felt, to this day i think aboiut her, and our amazing times, i am with another girl now, im not in love but i do love her. All i ever wanted was the girl i was IN love wit, but because i felt somthing she let it go.
as for your predicament, why dont you just forget everything, dont ask him why he feels upset, just give him what he needs, the night of his life, i dont mean sex i mean fun, give him your lovin, dont metin anything about the past or how he is feeling, let him tell you then give the guy respect for telling you.
All woman need to learn about men, we are not a toy, we are not the man who fixes the shite in your house, and we are not the ones who break things off because you say those 3 words.
2006-10-24 23:44:54 · answer #7 · answered by inkthebrain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he never tells you anything (as you say is the case), then he's not good to be with anyway,.. no good relationship can last if the communication breaks down.
Either he and you both talk candidly/openly or you move on to singledom, (which is all I've known, but it's good, no hassles or grief to put up with lol).
Hope that sensible bit of advice helps.
2006-10-24 23:32:52 · answer #8 · answered by wildimagination2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It never ceases to amaze me why someone as good looking as you appear to be are wasting your time with a miserable and perhaps boring individual who sounds like he has no interest in you at all, looking at your past questions it sounds like you are trying hard to make things work, ditch him and get out there and find someone who appreciates you.
By the way, i am free and single, ugly but very considerate and very devoted!!
2006-10-24 23:38:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him, if he doesn't stop sulking or at least tell you why then you will have to split up. He if wants to stay with you he will oblige, if he doesn't then you are free to look for a new boyfriend.
2006-10-24 23:32:55 · answer #10 · answered by michelle a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋