Then you both lose contact with each other and you still sometimes think of her and your current spouse gets mad because you want to know how she is doing. Am I wrong for wanting to know how she is and why am I?
2006-10-24 23:16:00 · 13 answers · asked by internationl D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No your not wrong for what you think. If that friend was a big impact on your life tell your chick and if she gets all mad on why you want to see her I think it would be jealously but who knows. Look just do it and just deal with the consequences.
2006-10-24 23:36:06 · answer #1 · answered by Young Vito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO you are not wrong i was best mates with this girl 4 7 years and then we moved into high school and we had an argument over something stupid and now we have completly lost contact i still wonder 2day why we fell out i want to b mates with her again but i no we wont dont qorry life will move on and you probally will see her again remeber as uv lost a friend ur porbally gain another one but dont worry u are not wrong hope you feel better soon xx
2006-10-25 06:27:01 · answer #2 · answered by ..x..blue.eyed.princess..x.. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you known your spouse? If you have know your best friend for longer than your spouse (or longer than you have been with her) then sure you are right! A friend from before is a friend now! I could understand why your spouse would get upset if you only met this girl after you got married.
2006-10-25 06:21:23 · answer #3 · answered by Motti _Shish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not wrong for wanting to know how she is. You don't even have to bring it up to your spouse. If you're using a lot of time and attention in some effort to locate this former friend, however--time and attention that could be devoted to your family--then you might want to rethink your priorities.
2006-10-25 06:21:09 · answer #4 · answered by Freak Of Nurture 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it makes your spouse angry and upset, yes it is wrong. As a husband your wife feelings should take precedence over your own desires. Keep pursuing this and you may be asking for real trouble in your marriage.
2006-10-25 06:19:41 · answer #5 · answered by carouselle10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all and if your spouse says that there is no one in there life that they dont find themselves thinking about once in awhile they are not being honest
2006-10-25 06:18:37 · answer #6 · answered by Justin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume that you are a guy and your girl is jealous. I don't see anything wrong with missing an old friend. Just reassure your girl that you love her and want no other and your friend is nothing more than a friend.
2006-10-25 06:22:01 · answer #7 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think ur spouse doesnt trust u lol and it is what u think that matters so go and find out how she is doing it isnt something wrong unless u want it to be PEACE !!
2006-10-25 06:20:25 · answer #8 · answered by najy jackhammer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and get in contact with her. he shouldn't get mad with you. maybe he should be a bit more tactful but he's probably just bored with the topic. Other that that, it's not really up to him who you are friends with, or want to spend time with.
2006-10-25 06:19:58 · answer #9 · answered by purple_butterflyuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since u tell u r friends, i dont think u r wrong...
2006-10-25 06:18:34 · answer #10 · answered by Shiny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋