why cant i find a good guy ????

Question

im pretty and smart and fun to be with but because im almost divorced and i have three kids, no one wants me? why do guys have to be that way?

Answer 1

You need to think more highly of yourself. You have other priorities than to worry about finding a man. There are alot of men out there who want only one thing as you already know, but there are also good men that are worth the wait. Be patient and dont press the issue. When a man senses you are desperate,he will tend to take advantage, but when a man senses you are confident he begins to shine. Always have healthy self-esteem and make those children top priority

Answer 2

I'm headed to divorce with 2 kids and I consider myself a good guy.

It's a bit tougher to find partners when you have kids already because there's not a whole lot of people out there that want to take on that sort of commitment.

I certainly feel alone sometimes but I make the most of it by distracting myself. Hang with some friends, get away from it all for a few.

Go out there and discover yourself once again, find happiness and don't reel in the first guy that comes along.

Too many guys out there will see you as an easy target now and will try to use you unless you're strong.

I wish you luck.

Answer 3

I `ll be honest from the start.The 3 children will scare the guy from the start.Also the fact that their father is still in the picture is detrimental to you for finding a good guy.
The ex`s always give the new guy a bunch of crap ,the kids are unsure who to like and this is a 3 ring circus of emotions.
You might want to just have a few male friends for dating and don`t obligate them to a long term relationship.
Remember it is not you keeping them away ,its the whole picture ,that they can`t handle.

Answer 4

Depends on too many factors to discuss here. How many and what kind of mistakes you've made in the past, what kind of mistakes they've made in the past. More importantly, what's the chances of men believing you will make more mistakes with them later on. "Good Men" want a "good life" without chaos....you need to offer that. The thing is, it doesn't have anything to do with your having kids or going through a divorce, it just narrows the choices to those men that have been there or understand your circumstances. They will need to know that you're a good mother, a good parent and can be counted on. Damb, you asked a great question here. I'll write you again later...I have to go to work, email me if you want to discuss more later..........Good luck

Answer 5

guys are scared of resiponsibilities, so when they find out u have kids they ran away as fast as they can. good guys are had to find if u find one that is able to take u the way u r then grab him with both hands and never let him go. Just becareful not to get one that will abuse yr kids. take yr time know the guy b4 u let him close 2 u 4 the sake of yr kids.

Answer 6

Life's a game and you must treat it as such! Recall times you werechasing boys how many tricks you'd manufatured in order 2 get one on your knees ?Over the years this is dead and U must rekindle your inner willingness to hunt them up and...down! Change attitude and you'll see. Be a mother to your family and a chick to life!
Tally ho!

Ciao....John-John.

Answer 7

you are trying to hard you will meet a good man when laest expected...i meet my husband at a convience store 8 years ago i just went in for a soda and now happily married with 3 kids

Answer 8

if they know that you are expecting them,then they starts to demand. Be cool, u have enough courage to manage with, be a good mother to children n the time will make you the happiest soon.

Answer 9

We all aint that way. You just need to look under the right rock till you find who you want.

Answer 10

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