should his wife get to know about it?
2006-10-24 20:57:17 · 39 answers · asked by fanny a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
which means he fu cks me, of course!
2006-10-24 20:57:54 · update #1
no need...u enjoy urself!!
2006-10-24 21:00:02 · answer #1 · answered by dimdim 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm a 24yo M and I once started messing with a guy, about a month into the relationship I found out he was married.
I don't personally understand these married men who are on the "Down-Low" but I personally think it's wrong to hurt someone's feelings that way.
Once I found out he was married, I was done with the relationship and I let him know. I personally didn't tell his wife about our affair because I know how hurt I was to have him lie to me I didn't want to put that burden on her as well. I think you should cut the relationship off and let him know this isn't right he's not only messing with your feelings and emotions but also his wife's if she finds out what he is doing.
2006-10-24 21:56:19 · answer #2 · answered by Tigrecub82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The dirty lucky so and so. I'm 54 and would love to get my hands and other parts on a nice firm juicy 21 year old rather than the wrinkled up old prune i'm married too. Guess he feels the same.
2006-10-25 01:45:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's good for you, and you don't have any expectations about having some serious relationship with this fella, leave it be. If he chooses to tell his wife that's his call, his right, so be prepared at any time for the confrontation. You don't have any rights in this situation, you're just winging it and hoping for the safest path. Best of luck... I've had one work out just fine, one work out half-assed and one work out terribly. It's a crap shoot. Long as you know what might happen, and are content with the potential consequences, by all means enjoy what you can :)
2006-10-24 21:02:08 · answer #4 · answered by pair-a-docs 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Fu*cking hell he is old cant you find someone nearer your own age.
You must have very low self esteem or be really fat and ugly to want to Fu*ck a 58 yr old.
Thats is sick!!!!
Old people having sex Yuk!!!!!!!!
Just read your Q again no wonder your messed up your a Queer!!!!
2006-10-24 21:09:34 · answer #5 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you have to think of is can you afford to move or should i say your parents! Obviously non of you have got respect for his poor wife! If he can mess round once he'll do it again so get your head out the clouds dear and smell the coffee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! She'll find out sooner or later anyway, men have a tendency of slipping up.
2006-10-25 02:35:00 · answer #6 · answered by dotdog_cavvy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're a classy lady aren't you? How can you cheapen yourself like that, talk about letting someone use you, he is MARRIED which means steer clear. How would YOU like it if you found out your husband was having his end away with a younger neighbour? Well what goes around comes around, so maybe one day you will know how it feels.
2006-10-24 22:09:27 · answer #7 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you are proud? Well obviously you need to figure out what is wrong with you sweetie like some counseling and what is your purpose for telling his wife? to hurt her? obviously you didn't care he was married to begin with so why you trying to front now? What you need to do is find your own man !
2006-10-24 21:41:08 · answer #8 · answered by dodgerchik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol yeah your joking right,cause first off that's a married man and hes old yuck go out and find a younger guy one that ant married just think off all the heart ache and hurt you will cause if this ever got back too his wife your selfish and need a slap to wake you up please stop this and grow up ..................don't tell his wife walk away now and leave them alone or are you pleased to be know as a Home breaker................
2006-10-25 03:00:25 · answer #9 · answered by skye 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will eventually get caught. If he does this to his wife who else is he sleeping with? Nothing wrong with an older partner but keep away from once with partners. You are degrading yourself. Why do you want to do that?
2006-10-24 21:21:41 · answer #10 · answered by John T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) You ought to be ashamed of yourself!
2) Women aren't stupid she probably knows !
3) Do you really want to ruin someone else's life just because you are a selfish stupid girl?!!!!
4) If you have any dignity you will stop sleeping with another woman's man!!!!!!
2006-10-25 04:44:06 · answer #11 · answered by poppy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋