2006-10-24 20:28:45 · 13 answers · asked by not surprised 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No! Don't take him back. He's just going to do it again, and again, and again. Is that what you want? Just tell him to go take a hike! If you ever succeed in marrying this guy, he'll just keep hurting you.
He does this in part, to test how much sh*t you can take from him. If you keep taking him back, you are in a sense giving him permission to keep hurting you. He depends on that. So don't take him back again. Move on with your life and make something of yourself.
Your life can be so much better without him. Prove that to yourself. You have to take care of yourself, because no one else will.
2006-10-24 20:46:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I shouldn't have to answer that for you, you should have a list of reasons for not taking him back into your life. Would you like me to out line them for you? Okay maybe I will.
1.He has done it so many times that anytime he thinks that he wants to run again he will.
2.He is not ready for this kind of commitment and that's another reason he runs.
3.He probably was the type of person who thought that marriage was all cherry blossoms until he got into the thorns and couldn't take the poking.
4.Once is a mistake and twice is a habbit and girl three times ooh you got it bad. But that is what i call fatal attraction you should stay as far away from him before he breaks your heart again. You shouldn't give him no time of day or even night just tell him to stay away from you and get over him and on with your life. He is sounding like a dead beat dad to be and husband that would abandon his wife. Run as fast as you can.
2006-10-24 20:45:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as he already left you 3 times and asking you to come back again, what is guarantee that he wont leave you for 4th time.. So don't become so blind in love. never love a love that hurts and never hurt a love that loves.. remember this and go on.. life is full of surprises and you will have bunch of good things in future..Just stop expecting anything from life and see each unexpected thing will be surprise for you..
Have a wonderful life
Kaustubh
2006-10-24 20:36:37 · answer #3 · answered by Kaustubh Gujar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN as fast as you can ...And don't look back He is playing you for DUMB... and stupid..What is it going to take ....Show him that he is the one that left you and I would show him that their would be no way I would ever let him back into my life again Because what you allow to happen to your heart over and over and over again and again...You are the one that gets the cause and effect of it how much more can you take is the question...Or how much more are you going to allow Him to hurt you over and over again it is worth it for your heart to hurt some more I don't even no you but their is some great and wonderful guys out their that will treat you right....Just make sure that you are not attracted to the same kind of guy as he is... God bless and great luck.....
2006-10-24 20:40:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I even have seen a pair of buddies and relatives flow nevertheless this. repeatedly and as quickly as greater and that they only look so dumb yet as a consequence on an identical time as i accept as true with each physique else that has published i variety of have a various perspective. i think of that it is dumb which you have taken him returned such quite some circumstances yet i understand the place you're coming from. I see ladies each and all the time take returned a guy that has the two a)cheated or b)dealt with them like crap (beat them/embarass them while they're with buddies etc.) and that i've got self belief like in case you flow returned to him you are able to as nicely in simple terms say "handle me like ****, i like it and that i can not depart you no longer remember what you do." i think of that he quite does love you yet me has a psychological ailment that reasons him to cheat. you have already taken him returned such quite some circumstances that i think of that one greater won't injury. i think of which you may get returned with him no longer basically given which you adore him and he loves you yet given which you adult males have a daughter. I say take him returned with one situation-make him flow to medical care. If he provided it potential that he quite needs to seek for help. He knows that he's ill and needs help. If he's sturdy approximately going to the conferences and you notice exchange then i'm particular it is going to likely be everlasting yet once you seize him cheating for the time of or after medical care it potential that there isn't any saving him in any respect and you may renounce by way of fact it is undesirable to your daughter to enhance up with that. it is going to coach her that being dealt with poorly by somebody who claims to love you is acceptable. the only reason that i'm suggesting it quite is by way of fact he provided to flow to medical care if he would not then i say depart him. cheating is a demonstration of disrespect and it shows that he would not care approximately your emotions.
2016-10-16 09:19:23 · answer #5 · answered by seelye 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see a pattern here and it is not a good one-it sounds like your fiancee is trying to have their cake and eat it too-be very careful and dont take him/her back immediately
2006-10-24 20:33:34 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him......three strikes you are out
Make it final this time
2006-10-24 21:04:30 · answer #7 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fool me once shame on you.Fool me twice(or three times) shame on me.
2006-10-24 20:32:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do nothing. move on. if he left you once, he'll leave you again.
heck what am i sayin, you've proved that yourself, didn't you?
2006-10-24 20:31:31 · answer #9 · answered by girliegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow a pair, and tell him not to bother. stop disrespecting yourself
2006-10-24 20:30:52 · answer #10 · answered by Boop 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋