now my friend wants to know who the other woman is should i tell her its my back stabbing sister plus my sis is pregant. I confronted her about the whole thing and she told me she does not care I could lose my friend because of her. Im torn in half over this i told my sister she is wrong please i need some advice.
2006-10-24 20:03:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell your friend...Shame on your sister and the 40 year old man, He should know better!
2006-10-24 20:06:39 · answer #1 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh gawd, what variety of universe do you reside in? it is trashy and cheep. Get your self out of the middle. it quite is not your project.Your sister has made a terrible decision and he or she would be able to pay the consquences.you have had your say with your sister. returned away and forget approximately approximately her. If she is in serious hassle....it quite is not Your project. approximately telling your pal. in case you haven't any longer achieved it yet, there could be a clarification for it. i'm undecided what I woud do if it have been my pal. i think of i might of informed already. Boy, this could nicely be a multitude. i think of perchance she needs to income then you definately tell her you may returned away and enable time take it quite is direction. do no longer shop your self in direction of this. enable the individuals who've made the mess. there's a sturdy risk you are able to loose your pal. there isn't any longer lots you're able to do approximately it. This guy and your sister have betrayed a marriage vow between your pal and her husband. sturdy good fortune
2016-10-16 09:18:50 · answer #2 · answered by seelye 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's none of your business, and tell your friend that it's none of your business who her husband sleeps with (and gets knocked up).
Then, tell your sister it's HER business, and she and/or the man need to do some serious explaining to his wife.
Finally, once you've said all that, get out of the way, and make this topic a "hands off" topic with your friend, because you aren't going to take sides (it would just end up hurting everyone in the long run, including you unborn niece/nephew).
2006-10-24 20:19:36 · answer #3 · answered by Johnna L 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What a mess! The truth hurts and your sister and her husband should come clean. The husband is at fault as he is so much older and should know better.
This shouldn't be your mess. It is between your sister, the husband and your girlfriend. You just have to be there to listen when your girlfriend needs it or your sister.
You've done nothing wrong.
2006-10-24 20:07:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look if she is your real friend you won't loose her over this it is not you fault your sister is a hoe.You need to tell her because you would want to know if she finds out and knows that you knew she will be hurt.
2006-10-24 20:51:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the facts coolly and without adjectives like "my back stabbing sister". You are not involved in this, maintain your distance and let them sort it out between themselves. Tell your friend to treat your sister as she would have any other girl, without letting the friendship between you two influence the way she treats your sister.
Remember, honesty is the best policy!
2006-10-24 20:11:25 · answer #6 · answered by Explore_Me 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that's some dirty ****!
i think if you don't tell your friend, she will find out eventually and that would definitly put an end to your friendship since it would be quite obvious you knew and didn't tell her.
and your sister.... i dont really know what to say to that.... i guess she is not worth it all since she doesn't really care about you as she did this without a second thought about you!
i hope you never regret whichever decision you go with
good luck!
i hope i was of any help!
2006-10-24 20:07:13 · answer #7 · answered by grly grl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It appears that ur sis seduced the man. Keep quiet. Donot spoil his life with ur friend.
2006-10-24 20:05:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honesty is the best policy.
2006-10-24 20:13:42 · answer #9 · answered by teddytrin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your sister's being such a ***** about it, tell your friend.
If you are worried that she'll be mad about you keeping it from her, tell her you just found out..
2006-10-24 20:05:42 · answer #10 · answered by Haven 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋