2006-10-24 19:50:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Threesome, I say no it is not essential in any committed relationship. If he is pressuring you try buying a nice dildo and you can work yourself over while having anal sex. There is something about the "off limits" idea that he is fantasizing about and if you relax you'll see it is erotic.
2006-10-24 20:19:54 · answer #1 · answered by Gettcha 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dear:
If the threesome involves you, him and another man then I should think that it will be more fun for you, but if you are against anal then say no!
If its with another woman, tell ur hubby to go to hell!He can have anal by himself and shove the threesome down his ***!
Its not worth it to begin with,I mean, a threesome is not healthy in any relationship much less a marriage. And a marriage is supposed to be between the two people that took the vow!
Take what self respect you have left and give this guy a divorce, with all those diseases and sin going around your life will soon begin to be like hell!
Anal sex if done should be between a man and a woman who love eachother and wanna explore their love not with other people involved!
Whatever you do remember you have that right-that option to say no or yes to any choice becoz America is free and God loves you!
Goodluck
Love Sanam
2006-10-25 03:38:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course its not essential. First things first, figure out if you're comfortable with actually doing these things and if youre not then just disscuss it together. Tell him why you just can't do it. He's gotta respect your decision and find an activity that meets halfway.
Heck yeah, there are other options. You guys can play "dress up" instead of a threesome. As for the anal part, well, ask hm why he wants to do that and then find another "activity" that can still satisfy his reasons or meet the same level of uhm, excitement. Have fun!
2006-10-25 05:38:37 · answer #3 · answered by stormsandblues 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Neither is essential. Men tend to fantasize about both. As long as your hubby is only hinting, and not pressuring, laugh it off, unless you are willing to try one, or both. If he is pushing you to do either, take a firm approach, and tell him no, and that you won't even consider it unless he stops. Don't do anything that you aren't willing to do.
As for other options, ask him. See if there is something he would really like to trythat you may be more comfortable with. Remember that most new sexual experiences never make you feel completely comfortable, so don't immediately discount something because of that.
2006-10-25 03:42:20 · answer #4 · answered by mothermaggie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 somes are on the surface very enticing, but they are dangerous also. Your feelings, your marriage, your emotions, and your fantasies are all on the table. They can be all at risk. Anal sex is not essential to any one, two, or three. Care is a real necessary component if you choose to go down that path. Remind your husband what the word no means.
2006-10-25 04:06:37 · answer #5 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is a dumbass. Tell him you'll do anal after he does. Tell him he can have a 3some with you and any man of your choosing. See what the dumbass does with those options.
2006-10-25 02:53:02 · answer #6 · answered by OU812 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'd tell him "yeah we can have a 3 some with another girl, then you can know what it's like to disappoint 2 women simultaneously" LOL
2006-10-25 03:04:03 · answer #7 · answered by Boop 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he wants it and fantasizes about it then do it...
Otherwise, you run the risk of him going elsewhere for it...
These are not unreasonable requests....
2006-10-25 03:02:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
go for it .....its fun
2006-10-25 17:29:59 · answer #9 · answered by just a guy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋