my best friend is kinda gettin on my nerves?

Question

my bestest friend is gettin on everyones nerves ever since she took the guy that i liked. she told me that she liked him but then ten minutes later someone asked her if she liked him and she said "she wasnt looking for a relationship". so i thought everything was cool but was i ever wrong. my youth group went on this trip out to a farm with a camp fire cookout and a corn maze. by the end of the night i ran into him and her in the cornmaze holding hands and all of a sudden daiting!!!!! she also lied to one of my other friends. i forgave her but she thinks everything is cool when i am still irritated. what should i do? should i talk to her about it or just let it be?

Answer 1

dump her

Answer 2

Friends especially good close friends have a tendency to get on our nerves at times. If this is really bothering you talk to her. If you don't get it out in the open with her, it will stand between you.
The part that bothers me is you said she lied. That is not a good trait in a friend. If she lies to others, she is might also lie to you.
I hope it works out for you.
Good Luck.

Answer 3

frndz are really hard to get ,but theres a limit to evrythin.you cant always give up for others.it seems that shes taking your frndship for granted.if shes not bothered bot ur feelings,then whAT da hell arev you sulking bout it.if you r still not comfortble, go and have a talk wid her n let the sad feeling inside of u come out.i wud like to advise u DONT B A EMOTIONAL FOOL,THERES NO PLACE FOR EMOTIONS IN THIS WORLD.BUT THERE R SOME PEOPLE WHOL VALUE UR FEELINGS,GO. SEARCH FOR THEM MY DEAR.

Answer 4

Just remember that sometimes your friends may have issues with you being happy and try to interfere with that by either taking what you have or immulating you. Maybe she is lacking attention from you and this is her way of expressing it. HOWEVER, you should definitly let her no that it aint cool for her to take your seconds because real friends dont date friends ex's. ewwwww

If you feel that you should cut her off just distance yourself and try to refrain from an ugly exchange of words.

Answer 5

talk things out.. ther's no better way than to be open and understand each other.. confront her, since as uv said she's ur bestf..she'll understand.....actually, does she ever know , evn if she's ur bestf, that u really liked this guy she's dating with?

if she does.. then definitely, she knows wats she's doing not only to you, to the guy, but also to herself.

dont worry, ul have your better guy..

tell her openly, what you feel if your hurt, then go ahead tell her, cry if you need to.. im sure, she'll feel for you too, and most probably, you'll resolve it and reconcile..

just do ur part, be the one to initiate the talk.. if she won't entertain you, then.. its ok, now ul know why.. and no guilt nomore on yuor part, since youd done yours..

BUT, do it, when u think ur calm and ready to confront.0k?

=)

Answer 6

she knows what she wants and knows how to get it, you cant be mad at her for that. Let her be you cant change her ways...and you are irritated with her because she is competition now. They say keep your friends close and your enemies closer so figure out what she really is to you be a real lady about yours and act accordingly.

Answer 7

Hi
Talk to her about it in person, away from school and without other people being around. Be open and honest. If she is not willing to do this - walk on.

Answer 8

if this girl took your boyfriend, she is NOT your best friend.....

Answer 9

SLAP HER!!!what a slag....

Answer 10

talk to her.....