my wife and i let my step daughters boy freind move in with us so thay could save up and get place of thear own well two years has pass and we had to throw his ?out he is 31 and still want do right a few moths ago his ride was wrecked he went and got a 4wheeler still with no way to go he is not trying to help his self and in my stepdaughters eyes he cant do no wrong he loves to hunt and thats were all his moneys go s and to top it all off you cant talk to him if you try he just gets up and leaves so i wrote him a letter it said (more or less) grow up or get out well when he read it it so happen he had a buddy with him and thay bouth beat me up in front of my 3year no body hear but me and my child well my stepdaughter went with him and everone thats knows me and me is mad pissed hurt we ask everone to let us handel it but thay say when i see him and i will im going to kick his ? he has got a feloney and he like to hunt so hes got lots of guns i just wonder if thay in his name
2006-10-24 18:54:34 · 6 answers · asked by runninglate 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Report it to the police.Above all else, they can get him for child endangerment because it was in front of your son. Also, he was on your property and that is trespassing. I don't know how old your step-daughter is, but sounds like she needs a good talking to. I personally would have never let a 31 year old bum move in with me. But, i understand taking care of your kids. Talk with the police. Tell them you are under the understanding that he has guns and you fear for your and your families safety. They will have you file a restraining order against him. If your daughter is young enough she will be protected with that. Don't let anyone you know handle it other than yourself. Protect yourself and your family. Your step-daughter might be mad, but she will come around. He is acting irrational not you. And if he came and beat you up in your own home with your son present whose to say he won't try something else? Good Luck and if you need anymore advice feel lfree to e-mail me. When and if you do go to file a restraining order ask the magisrtate about protecting your step-daughter also.
2006-10-24 19:11:33 · answer #1 · answered by kelsdaddy01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a situation the police should handle. What a sorry dog to beat you up at all, but with your 3 year old there. If your stepdaughter gets in touch with you tell her to get lost. And if that lousy loser comes to your house or calls make a report to the police.
2006-10-24 19:25:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order pronto! If he comes back - he could harm others in your family. I have been through this and he will not stop. Cut him off completely. If the step daughter can't respect you - she needs to move too. Every time he calls report him to the ploice and have it traced.
2006-10-24 19:17:57 · answer #3 · answered by Erik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you havent reported this to the police yet the question is why havent you reported it dont be an idiot like him and take to violence unless you are positive you can get away with it.
i do believe in street justice and personal justice but think; if you get caught then you were too dumb to handle the situation and should have called the cops....think!!!
2006-10-24 19:29:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, call the police, report him, and get a restraining order.
2006-10-24 19:06:28 · answer #5 · answered by Hicktown girl66 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET A RESTRAINING ORDER
2006-10-24 18:58:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋