I'm sorry I should have clarified- I have the right bras lol the problem is that I have been dating the same man for over a year, and I am still embarassed to be intimate- I have to wear a shirt or a bra. This may be just the way I see myself, but it is becoming a problem for me. Thanks all!
2006-10-24 17:47:24 · 12 answers · asked by countrygirl81886 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I know you asked for women's answers. But I have to answer for men. You'll most likely get a TON of replies from men just being boys. Mine's not that answer.
Anyways, a guy you've been seeing for a year is in love with you and all of you. Not just your body. He's not checking you out anymore to find flaws - at least hopefully not. I wouldn't worry about surgery to improve your appearance for this guy. If it's self image you're worried about that's another thing.
I was married to a woman for 10 years. In the last 3 years of our marriage she had a mastectomy. There were no nipples, her breasts were hard like rocks and she had huge scars. I loved the woman and didn't worry about what her breasts looked like. To me it was part of her.
My bottom line: Don't worry about surgery. Just worry about being happy with this guy. If he comments on your physical attributes in a negative manner he's most likely going to be an abusive husband if it gets that far.
Just my opinion.
2006-10-24 17:52:21 · answer #1 · answered by Jeromy 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I see women on Dr. 90210 get breast augmentation all the time in their early 20's. I don't think your age will prevent you from getting a lift. If you do something surgically at such an early age there is a chance you will have to have some follow up surgery in 10 to 15 years, so keep that in mind when making your decision.
2006-10-25 01:02:11 · answer #2 · answered by strgoddss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you saying you want or need a breast lift? I am in the same boat, sagging after having children, my husband rarely sees me with out a shirt or bra on, I don't like for any one to see me with out my bra, but as I have goten closer to my husband, it is easier for me now. just let him see and get it over with
2006-10-25 00:51:56 · answer #3 · answered by kat_lucas60 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if hes been with you for a year then im sure hes sees you as a beautiful woman and doesnt care.honey beauty comes from within until you tell yourself your beautiful your always going to believe people think your not.verynight before you go to bed write ten times i am a beautiful woman and i am worthy of love.do this for ten days and i gaurantee you will and others will see a big difference in your confidence.
2006-10-25 00:54:42 · answer #4 · answered by cookiemonster5210 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after a year he either won't care, he already suspects and don't care. I can't beleive he doesn't know by now. If it was two weeks and I didn't know what thwy are like, I wouldn't ever know because I would be long gone lost john.
By the way my wife had breast cancer, nothing has changed
2006-10-25 00:53:31 · answer #5 · answered by jekin 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It shouldn't matter what your boyfriend thinks, it's going to come down to how you feel and what will make you happy. If a breast lift will make you happy then do it, but only do it for yourself
2006-10-25 01:26:36 · answer #6 · answered by homers_friend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r preety...and if someone likes u or is dating u..should like u for the qualities u have..not ur breast shape or size my dear friend.
pls concentrate on ur life and studies....u hav all ur life to think about these issues u r too young for all this now.
2006-10-25 00:59:23 · answer #7 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a Plastic Surgeon and get a consultation.... their free.
2006-10-25 00:48:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the man loves you - he will or should, make u feel comfortable enough to go topless
2006-10-25 00:52:08 · answer #9 · answered by Frankie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try push up bra..................
2006-10-25 06:01:00 · answer #10 · answered by Raji 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋