I'm pregnant right. My boyfriend keeps annoying me and teasing me. I feel sick, I have massive morning sickness and he just wont stop. What do i do? I'm not feeling well and I just cant concerntrate on anything. What can i do other thean telling him to F*** off??
2006-10-24 17:36:11 · 14 answers · asked by Angelic_Lady 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Talk to him about it! My b/f and i were very teasing and playful with eachother and when i fell pregnant i just couldn't handle it anymore! It wasn't that he was doing anything wrong - he was. after-all, just doing what we always did. It was just me - hormones out of control and moods just unpredictable! lol. I felt like sh*t for 3months! I spoke to him about how i was feeling and how my hormones were raging and how i just needed him to settle down a bit - which he was more than happy to do at the time!
Now, at 16wks, i'm alot more settled and we are back to teasing and playing the same as always, none the worse for wear!
2006-10-24 17:59:05 · answer #1 · answered by Smiley One 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you told him? Keep some crackers close by to help with the morning sickness but beware: mine lasted 24 hours not just mornings. He needs to get serious and respect you and your feelings if he's about to become a father. Show him books about pregnancy and all that comes with it. Ask him for a little understanding. These can be very hard times when we feel so sick all the time.
Have him read some of your answers you get to this question. He shouldn't get mad about it. He loves you, right? It'll get better so hang in there and good luck.
2006-10-25 00:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by suzyQ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Puke on him, that ought to get the message across loud and clear. But seriously, if he is this immature now with you, you might want to consider how he's going to be with the baby. Is he going to annoy and tease the baby too, he needs to grow up and help take care of you, not harass and tease you. Set him straight now honey or you'll be sorry.
2006-10-25 00:40:03 · answer #3 · answered by JennieLouie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
payback can be so cool, though you have months to wait....waking him up at 2 in the morning to help change nappies; then at 4 then at 6....baby sick on his best top AND you get away with murder at the moment by being able to blame EVERYTRHING YOU DO on your hormones being all over the place.....sit down put you feet up have a cup of tea and think about the possibilities that are there
2006-10-25 00:46:29 · answer #4 · answered by aych 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't blame you for feeling this way. Do you have another male friend or brother? Could they have a word with him? All it will take is for some guy to make a comment about how beautiful you look during your pregnancy and I'm sure he will look at you with a different view.
2006-10-25 00:43:44 · answer #5 · answered by Leah M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit him down and tell him how you feel. If he doesn't listen and continues to do so maybe the F off will do it.
I know it came to this in my situation....sometimes they just don't take us seriously....
Tell him if he can't treat you any nicer, to stay away from you when you are sick. And if he cannot respect your wishes, how then can you be expected to repsect his (sex or anything else he holds of value)
Or you can pull the crying thing and tell him he is hurting your feelings.....
Congrats on the lil one!
2006-10-25 00:42:10 · answer #6 · answered by Amber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-10-02 14:22:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him nicely to show consideration and to leave you alone and that you are not feeling and in need of some peace and quiet.
If that doesn't work go some where else in the part of your home so you can make sure you can get your peace and quiet
2006-10-25 00:41:09 · answer #8 · answered by Melody-Lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would start with the easiest step first, explain the depth of your discomfort. Giving a fair warning is something that tends to escape a pregnant woman, or at least it did me:) Keeping in mind that he really will never be able to empathize, he may at the least be able to sympathize. All the best to you and yours!!!
2006-10-25 00:49:25 · answer #9 · answered by lareaux8 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should have a serious talk and try to work things out
2006-10-25 00:49:15 · answer #10 · answered by secret 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋