we are just having a "friends with benifits" realationship to begin with. neither one of us want to be in a boyfriend/girlfriend realationship. or anything else. we just get together once a week for some good sex. but all the sudden he tells me that he needs to "think" befor we do this anymore. we have been very honest with each other about everything. he knows that if he told me today that it was gonna stop because he wants to be with someone else, that i would be fine with that. but he says that it isnt that or anything like that, he just wants to think befor we continue.?????
2006-10-24 17:00:13 · 10 answers · asked by imbummin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He might be finding himself starting to really care about you & is worried about ruining your "with benefits" friendship. or maybe he's worried that you are getting to attached. Give him his space, if you are really only interested in him for fun, it shoulsn't bother you to give him his space.
2006-10-24 17:06:17 · answer #1 · answered by Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-05 05:06:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So let him have some space for himeself to think and brood. No rush, but you got to ask yourself first... how is your affection toward him.. purely physical attraction or merely pschological clinging habbit on him.. it shouldn't be so called a love for you and him but you could upgrade if he and you thought about it seriously. If his answer is negative. So learn to drop dead. Cause there must be some reason he left you and no need to pull him back to your side. I dislike to tell people how to do.. but you got to know how the world it would be when things don't turn out like what you like
2006-10-24 17:09:41 · answer #3 · answered by Snowcrane66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is falling for you. Maybe he knows that you dont see him as a boyfriend, but maybe he is starting to fall for you. I would just give him his space and when he calls you and tells you, it will be on his time.
2006-10-24 17:04:13 · answer #4 · answered by lpogue2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he wants something more to the relatiosnship the what it is. Maybe he likes you alot and wants to be your bf and maybe he can not continue what he is doing anymore bc of his feelings. I am not sure i would talk to him and ask him what he meant by that comment.
2006-10-24 17:04:46 · answer #5 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he may be developing feelings, or thinks he may be, and wants to examine them. Or, he may no longer be interested in the relationship as is, but wants to preserve the friendship. (ie: your feelings)
2006-10-24 17:21:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have put yourself in a situation where you have to let him think and give him space.
2006-10-24 17:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by DBL L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wen a person have true love, he wouldnt think twice n IF he thinks twice.. he dun really love u
2006-10-24 17:07:10 · answer #8 · answered by sweet_gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, his wife is getting suspicious.
2006-10-24 17:08:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
his gf is putting the brakes on your arrangement
2006-10-24 17:04:54 · answer #10 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋