Was just wondering, theres this girl i have a crush on. Im in gr 12 and she's in gr 11. ive never talked to her, this is her first year at the school. Do you guys find it weird if a guy u've never even said a word 2 comes up 2 you one day and asks you if you wanna hang out after skool like a movie or something?
I don't know anything about her, i just know that i am willing to get to know her, just need the opportunity. Do you guys think i should wait on the askin out thing, and make sure i atleast talk to her once after school like when shes waiting for her ride home? and then do the asking out thing next time i see her.
I really need to do something, Ive have been maddly in love with another girl (different girl) since we were in gr 7..so 6 yrs almost...and we're like close friends, but she has a BF. So im hoping that like everyone says, the only way to truly get over her is to by finding a new crush, which i think i have.
2006-10-24 16:46:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
go ahead
2006-10-24 16:51:07 · answer #1 · answered by soofi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as your not just looking for a rebound girl. make sure you over your ex enough to not think about ever going back out with her. And dont date this girl just to make your ex jealous.
Okay, i think asking her out right away being the first time yous talk is not a good idea, you will probably be coming onto her to strong and fast. it might push her away before she even gets to know you. so i would talk to her and get to know more about her and get her know about you. at any chance you can. i would rather wait when shes alone to go up to her and talk, just introduce yourself and ask her what classes shes in this year,ask her simple questions like that. make it short but sweet. the next day go up to her and talk a bit more. Than i would back off for a day or two, than go up to her again and start flirting with her and find out more about her. Than ask her out for lunch the next day. than after the lunch date i would ask her out going on how the date was. I am sure if you show her who you are more and more and you get to know her more and more, about a week or two of doing this it should be fine to move in closer.
2006-10-24 23:55:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try becoming her friend by getting to know her before asking to hang out with her. Let her get comfortable around you and let it lead to that. don't force it because it may scare her away or make her think it is something more than it is. Getting to know each other is talking in school and finding out each others likes and dislikes. Get her phone number and call her. Talk to her on the phone and you'll know when she is comfortable enough and you are ready.
2006-10-24 23:53:31 · answer #3 · answered by ninalopez19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a mutual friend? Where does she hang out? Do you have a class with her? What kinds of things is she interested in?
Don't stalk her or anything, but make an effort to get to know something about her and what interests her then join in. Once you get to know her, then you can pursue her if she seems the sort you would be interested in.
Good luck
2006-10-24 23:55:16 · answer #4 · answered by Slimsmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg, that happened to me! ok, this is a long story, so sit down and relax.
i moved to my current school last January and im still getting used to everything. for my 4th period of the day, im in a class of 5 people, and im the only girl. yea....awkward! but, one day, my friend told me about her friend who had a mad crush on me and wanted to go on a date. well, id never even heard of this guy. i told her id like to talk to him and well see from there, she relayed the message. then, in 4th, he asked me out. i dont even know his name, and i didnt know it was him she was talking about, until he asked me. i said maybe, i want to know u a bit more first. so we went our separate ways, and talked comfortably for a couple of weeks.
we are still friends, but i found out he has a gf in a nearby town. i guess i wasnt wat he wanted or sumthin. but we werent friends first, and i think thats why we arent going out now. so, my advice is, get to know her more than casually first. it may take a while, but it will make for a more solid relationship. if ur unsure about how to approach her, just say hi, and then compliment her hair or her clothes. if she's anything like me, shell start off on a funny story that happened when she bought it. :D lol. anyway, i hope this helped in some way.
good luck!!
2006-10-24 23:58:00 · answer #5 · answered by thatweirdchick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go for it.its not weird at all for guy to approach a girl he likes.that is the only way you will get to know her.so next time you see her complement her on something or if you really have the courage then be straight up and tell her you 've seen her around, you think she is very pretty and you would like to get to know her then ask her for her #.u have nothing too loose.good luck!!!
2006-10-24 23:55:00 · answer #6 · answered by morenita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And they it puppylove! (kidding) school okay!
You could just walk over and say Hello and my name is... and how do like our school so far? something to break the ice! Close friends maybe you should leave that way or wait and see if fate has a zinger for you. it never hurts to try
2006-10-24 23:52:17 · answer #7 · answered by ms foxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont rush things. start talking to her for a hile before you ask her out. if you've never spoken to her, how do you know you really like her? chat to her at school when you see her. if you need to work up to even that, start smiling at her when you see her in the halls etc. she'll fell comfortable when you do talk to her. find out if you think you're compatabile and then invite her to a group thing, then ask her out if thats what you really want.
2006-10-24 23:51:50 · answer #8 · answered by Ivy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk 2 her! Tell her u think shes a nice gurl and u wanna get 2 know her. When u get 2 know her then ask her out! once she gets 2 know the real you she'll know wut 2 say!! Good luck!! Hope all goes well!
2006-10-25 00:00:42 · answer #9 · answered by LiVE.L0VE.LAUGH :]♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her first and get to know her, when you both feel comfortable than maybe you can ask her to hang out.
2006-10-24 23:52:38 · answer #10 · answered by tweetyrd04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think she is cute and you want to get to know her.. and she is new to your school I think that she would welcome a friend. Of course that friendship might develop into something more. Give her a chance to get to know you.
2006-10-24 23:53:00 · answer #11 · answered by shetaz5360 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋