Why does it feel as though my friends are turning on me?

Question

i haven't consiously changed over the last couple weeks, but all my friends are turning really...mean. do u thinik it's something i'm doing?

and if so, how can i change myself to be liked again?

Answer 1

First of all, you should never have to change youself (unless your doing something your not suppose to be doing) If your friends can't except who you are, then they really aren't your friends, don't change to be someone who you arent. Make new friends if the ones you have don't like you for who you are, there are people in the world that will like you for who you are, and what your not trying to be. Believe me I have been down that road. Secondly, just ask them straight up, what their deal is, try to get to the bottom of it. I hope this has helped=-)

Answer 2

Maybe try talking to them about it. If it would be really hard to talk, try writing a letter. Be considerate of what they may be feeling, but ask them what's up and if you did something to upset them. Maybe someone started a false rumor or something you don't know about like that. Assume that something happened to change their behavior, you just gotta find out what it was. Maybe something bad happened that you don't know about.
Good luck!

Answer 3

Being liked isn't important enough to cause you to try to change for them. You can only be you. If your friends are becoming mean that's something you really don't want to be. Perhaps you have reached the point where it's time for you all to go your seperate ways. I hope it works out for you.

Best Wishes!!!

Answer 4

If your friends can't accept you for who you've become, then seek out new friends. Your friends aren't changing like you are. Change in yourself means a change in those around you. Don't let them hold you back. Good luck.

Answer 5

Did you ever stop to think that maybe your friends have changed and not you-maybe they were never your friends to begin with-be liked for who you are and not what other people want you to be-like your self first-then everything will fall into place-don't be what others want you to be -just be yourself-if they like you good if not oh well-find new friends that will like you for who you are and not what they want you to be.

Answer 6

don't change 4 any one if they are really your friends they will be their no matter what in the mean time don't let it stress you if it is act like its not when they see you don't care and with or with out them your fine they will want to know why your distant or what they did wrong then tell them how you feel

Answer 7

I just means that its time to move on. I'm going through a similair situation, and I've come to the conclusion that times are changing and its time to get new friends.

Answer 8

Maybe you should ask them if you have done anything hurtful or mean to them lately. If they open up and tell you if you have, then you should apoligize for whatever you did. If they say that you havent done anything then maybe its just that something has happened in their lives thats making them moody. They could get back to normal soon if you just give them time.

Answer 9

Ask you friends whats going on and try to talk to them about it.
If they still not open up and be frank then I think its time for you to have new friends. Its no big deal if they are like that. There are other good friends to hang with.

Answer 10

ask them. i just went through the same thing and they were trying to give me a hint that they didnt wanna be so close. maybe they are trying 2 tell u somethin? ask them, but DO NOT change urself for your friends! if they r ur friends, they would like you for who you are, and not expect you to change.