and noooo i am not a little kid! even tho this may sound childish please no stupid answers?
2006-10-24 16:27:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Dump the worthless 'friends' who gossip like this and move somewhere else(mentaly) so I can make new friends with more class than the jerks I usted to hang with.
consider the source and know they must be inadequate inside to be doing that to others.
2006-10-25 16:04:12 · answer #1 · answered by surfnsfree 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Behind every rumor there's some grain of truth. In another words, in order for a rumor to be believed, it has to sound believable. "Yeah, that sounds like something she'd do", is exactly what you don't want somebody to say about you. If you're total class all the way, total "Audrey Hepburn" for example, no one will ever believe anything bad about you. On the other hand, if you conduct your life like Paris Hilton, people will just jump to conclusions and believe the worst, even is the rumor is a lie. It's all in how you walk and talk and dress. Back in the old days, it was called "being a lady". Distinctly out of fashion these days. Sorry if I sound a little harsh, but you hit one of my hot buttons. A guy rarely meets a real lady nowadays.
2006-10-24 23:48:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get away from everyone who is involved in the gossip about me. I go home and do something totally unrelated. Maybe pour a screw driver and watcha movie, do a hobby, spend time with my daughter, do something that really matters. People like that dont deserve your friendship. The sooner u separate from them the sooner they find a whole new drama to gossip about. Good Luck!! :)
2006-10-24 23:36:04 · answer #3 · answered by Little Wifey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to what other people have to say about you. Unless there is truth to these rumors about you, than don't let them bother you. You know the truth and that is all that matters. The way I think about it when people are talking about me, is that they have nothing better to do with their lives, and obviously I have an effect on their lives because they are talking about me. Don't surround yourself with people that bring you down. Surround yourself with positive people that will make you feel good about yourself.
2006-10-25 01:29:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beat the crap out of them..LOL I'm kidding but sometimes I feel like doing that. Just say F**k IT! and hang out with my friends.
2006-10-25 14:55:31 · answer #5 · answered by D'Arcy P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i go somewhere quiet, where theres no one for at least a coulple hundred yards, and i just scream and rant and let it all out. an empty house will be fine. a journal can also help with this. if it persists, tell them nicely that wat theyre saying/doing is bothering you and could they please stop? and rumors are very nasty things. just turn a deaf ear to them. they only bother you if you let them.
2006-10-24 23:40:58 · answer #6 · answered by thatweirdchick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually i just say to myself "fck it!" and play video ames and hang out with friends.
2006-10-24 23:35:02 · answer #7 · answered by zorro1701e 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i laugh at their stupidity.
2006-10-24 23:39:38 · answer #8 · answered by Roka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋