why must she continue to FLIRT, constantly if she doesnt want us to be more than friends?? why does she do things that she KNOWS is gonna drive me crazy... yet, not want more??
2006-10-24 16:10:22 · 15 answers · asked by SiMPLY ME<3 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
.. then just called, to tell me goodnight.. and "mention" that some guy told her that he loves her so much... wft, why must u tell me, but then the next day, be all over me?? its too confusing
2006-10-24 16:48:46 · update #1
I think she doesn't know what she wants. I think she cares about you --> cause of all those phone calls and she ignores you cause she might be scared, or don't know what to say or how to act. If I were you, I would ask her face to face why she is doing/acting like this. You want some more info why she act like she likes you, and later why she ignores you. Yes, I would try to ask her.
Hope she will give you a direct answer!
2006-10-25 02:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by frenzie-ann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on here psyche it could be several things: 1) she has been treated badly in the past and needs a great deal of reinforcement to feel accepted, 2) she has been treated well in the past and does not realize that her overt flirtations may lead a more boundaried person to assume more, 3) she has self acceptance issues and pushes past boundaries in an attempt to push others away, only the ones that stay close will really get to know her, 4) she is a tease and needs to be let down hard and know that toying with others feelings is not appropriate.
Just a short list...........
2006-10-24 23:37:08 · answer #2 · answered by Daniel M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she dose not know what she wants may be you need to show her what she wants stand up and talk to her and or do somthing with her i mean what is the worst thing that could happen she can tell you goaway not to talk to her there are a lot of other people out there that probly love to have some one like you you deserve beter than that tell her how you feal
2006-10-25 01:02:07 · answer #3 · answered by tgangeltg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes the attention you're giving her. It makes her feel important. If she does not deserve it, then don't give it to her. You gotta be firm on this. Don't give in to her anymore. Don't flirt with her. If she continues to flirt with her, then DEMAND for a line to be drawn somewhere. Best of luck.
2006-10-24 23:40:33 · answer #4 · answered by - iceman - 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time, don't react to the flirting. Be oblivious to it. If she likes you, she will try harder and harder to flirt with you just to get a reaction...don't react. Be a vulcan towards this and be devoid of all human emotions to her flirtatious behaviour.
She will crack in the end.
2006-10-24 23:18:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she has very low self confidence. She does this to build up her ego.
2006-10-25 12:45:25 · answer #6 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in that situation before. she craves the attention she is getting. she's just a tease. i think u need to tell her to stop it if she doesen't want to be more than friends.
2006-10-24 23:20:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
she is in the not believing phase.. she feels soemthing 4 u.. but she doesnt wanna believe she is gay.. at least not yet.. give it some time.. dont rush it up..
2006-10-24 23:23:32 · answer #8 · answered by heba! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stoping talking to her. She is playing games with you....walk away before you and her end up hurting each other ..(with emotions).
2006-10-25 12:45:40 · answer #9 · answered by ♦GAY INDIAN♦ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same problem here, honey.
I think its the love of the chase.
2006-10-24 23:14:08 · answer #10 · answered by Jude M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋