and sex is important to me we been together 4 1 yr but he dosent seem as sexually active as me men out there tell me wat it could be and im not ugly im very sexy he dosent talk much im outgoing hes not do you think im wasting my time he barley sows me any real affection wat is it
2006-10-24 15:32:03 · 11 answers · asked by angel~face 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
from watching people and being a man myself i would worry that it is not the age difference but he may be straying. i am only in my teens and you may not respect my answer but from what i have seen in my life (my dad fooled around on my mother) the affection got less and less. my feeling is that although a man is sometimes not as affectionate as females seem to be i would ask when this started and if it seems against the way he was at one time. the only other option is that stresses in his life perhaps makes him feel unworthy of love. if this is not the case i would go back to what i said face it bud...it is over. everyone deserves to be happy so expect more from you relationship.
2006-10-24 15:39:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife of 20 some years was 17 years younger than me.She was outgoing and a great story teller.. We had a pleasant 20+ years until she passed away at the age of 47. She did deliver me a son when I was past 50.. so don't think it is usual for someone 16 years older than you, not to be hale and hearty and lovable.
He may have a physical or emotional problem in need of fixing.. have him get checked out.
2006-10-24 15:42:12 · answer #2 · answered by mrcricket1932 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st off u need to find someoen closer to ur age if sex is all that u care about.. thats just the truth of the matter.. 2nd a realationship isnt just about sex and whatever or whoever is putting these ideals in ur head needs to have a realtiy check.. 3rd u think way to highly of ur self.. u my be pretty or sexy as u put it but baby girl thats not gonna lasted forever.. WAKE UP! u need to work more on ur attitude.. start thinking about urslef and do someo soul searching.. u want a man to respect u , love u and need u.. but if u just want sex u mightest well be a horror.. cuz they are more to relationships then just sex.. love and communication, and trust should be more important to u than sex!
GET A REALITY CHEACK AND MAKE A CHANGE !
2006-10-24 15:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by Shelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart,
Get some one closer to your age,, My daughter married a guy 17 years older than her,, it didn't last long. If he doesn't pay you much interest now it will only get worse, find some one who will talk to you and has the same likes and hobbies you do, you have to have some common ground
2006-10-24 15:39:18 · answer #4 · answered by S h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need someone your age--your speed! This is normal for a man his age. A female does just the opposite, as she gets older, her sex drive increases.
2006-10-24 15:39:26 · answer #5 · answered by Flighty 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welll....if he's 16 years older than you, and you're like 45, that could have something to do with it.
2006-10-24 15:33:40 · answer #6 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're his boy toy. I'd move on to another relationship.
2006-10-24 15:33:16 · answer #7 · answered by GoddessofCoughSyrup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. If he is not willing to keep you happy now then he will never be able to do it.
Take it from someone who has been there.
2006-10-24 15:38:33 · answer #8 · answered by Aliz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you have the answer to that - how do you feel about him? Can you walk away, if so - then do it.
2006-10-24 15:34:17 · answer #9 · answered by chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he young but. i heard it happen to men young and old.....but he young he just tried if he don't make you happy move on...my man can't and won't he don't see me as a woman but his room maid......and it makes me sad.....but
2006-10-24 15:38:06 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋