I have liked a guy for 5 years now and realized that we loved one another, 2 years ago. We were together for ten monthes and had the greatest relationship.
After a bad move to his father's he went from being a weak at the knees crazy for me to suddenly not caring if I seemingly existed. as I am connected to his mom and his dad hates her, it seemed as though he was being badly influenced. He has no rules at his dads house as he did at his moms and is free to do whatever. We live 2 hours apart and the funny thing is is that I am still very close with his mom's side of the family. It has been a year now and I still love him just as strongly. I know that if he moves back to his mom things will be back how they used to, but I just do not know how long that will take, though I do not mind in the least bit on waiting for him. Sorry so long, any advice?
2006-10-24 15:26:12 · 5 answers · asked by cheyennesgurl5 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes gurl i do.
You need to show him that it is not his fault or urs. i think he is just very lost at this moment and he just needs help. sometimes when people push u away thats when they need u the most. and i would wait for him, and just call him and keep in touch. to me it sounds like he needs u right now. just stay by him and help him get through this. if u leave him now that is wow a really bad idea just tell him that u still lo ve him and u just want to help. if he still tries to push u away try again just not at that time.
help him
2006-10-24 15:35:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can keep right on loving him as long as you love yourself more. If someone was treating him like he is treating you, what would you want to happen? Would you want him to sacrifice his happiness for someone who does not show respect for him? He may feel love for you, but do not wait for him to mature, because it may just be how he is. Go on with your life, loving him from a distance. Your heart is not so small that you cannot love anyone other than him. You need to have a relationship that is a true partnership, not one that is arranged through his mother or where you are carrying the load.
Love yourself enough to turn the page.
2006-10-24 15:33:43 · answer #2 · answered by Steph. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-01 02:14:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things will not be the same - people change. This time away with his father has probably changed many things that will not be undone. Perhaps you will not even like the new him.
2006-10-24 15:31:00 · answer #4 · answered by auntynoall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET IT GO, You cant change them they have to truley love you
from the start....
2006-10-24 15:32:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋