iam a scorpio female born october29, why do i have such a hard time with relationships?

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just wondering if it is my sign or what

Answer 1

Scorpios are hard people to love I think as others have said due to people not seeing the real us that we hide inside at times and frightens people off. The other thing is some scorpios have a habit of using their allure and wind up scaring the same people we are trying to have a relationship with.

I feel your pain.. Had an aries that was flighty, a virgo that was insensitive that I left, and others... And here I am wanting to date another virgo and something is keeping me away right now.. the scorpio drives themselves nuts at times:-)

Hope you good luck and Happy Birthday on Sunday

Answer 2

I think it definately depends on the sign in which you are trying to form a bond with. For example, 2 Scorpios together are like Oil and Water. They just don't mix!!!

Scorpios are so dominate and intense, they need to do their best to be with someone, whether it be a friend or lover that is a bit less intense. Scorpios are certainly hard to figure out for tthe most part. Your either gonna love us or hate is, there is just no in between. I was born Oct 27th. I have been told that I seem secreative, but outgoing. Very contradictary in a way huh?

The pitfall of our sign is that we are very INTENSE in everything, love, friendships, sex!!! Some don't know how to take us, cause we are just the life of the party usually and it's hard for some to give up the power. We are a pretty good judge of character IF we will trust our 6th sense. So next time, just go with your gut. We have hot tempers, it may not explode all at once, but once it does others just have to get outta they way, right? So you need a peaceful person, someone who is calm, cool, and collected and dosen't have a temper.

The best folks for you to try and make relationships work with are those born in Januray or June. Steer clear of other October folks and Novembers! It's not you really, it's just that you need to find someone that understands you and accepts you. For your keen intellect, your smarts, your playfullness, your excitement for life, and your over-all passion!

Good luck, oh and Happy Birthday on Sunday!!!

Answer 3

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iam a scorpio female born october29, why do i have such a hard time with relationships?
just wondering if it is my sign or what

Answer 4

October 29 Scorpio

Answer 5

Technically, October 23 is the beginning of Scorpio, which means you fall under what is called a "cusp". A cusp is when one is born usually the first and last three (some claim seven) days of the zodiac period. This means, according to astrology, that you have certain traits of Libra (since Libra ends at October 22), which makes your traits as a Scorpio differ slightly from a usual traits of the typical Scorpio (or so they say). So, in a nutshell, you're technically a Scorpio with a Libra cusp! Personally, being a cusp just sounds cool :D

Answer 6

Truth is every scorpio i know always has to have the last word and when they tell you how they feel they dont care whos feeling they hurt. They are very loving, but very selfish. Most scorpios have a good sense of humor and as friends they are good at giving you the advice that would hit you hard but true.... Maybe it just depends on what sign your getting involved with . I am a big believer on signs

Answer 7

You are probably a strong personality and a lot of people don't think women should be assertive. I am in the same situation.
So far the only relationships that worked ( to a certain point)
were with Virgo or Cancer males. Yet I am attracted to Aries like a moth to a flame, and it always ends badly.

Answer 8

Surprisingly sentimental about the close family to whom you are exceptionally loyal, you need the support of loved ones in a secure, rather hidden nest to which you can retreat away from the clamour of the outside world. Though you feel the disappointments of family life and conflicts deeply. Scorpio children can be critical of their parents and are not the easiest to bring up since they react strongly to even seemingly trivial situations. You idealise the family and have a mental picture of a perfect domestic existence which life rarely provides. When hurt you retreat into your own space and firmly shut the door. You can brood and sulk for long periods over perceived shortcomings in the attitude of the family which sometimes causes problems. Posessiveness and jealousy are part of your nature so you like to keep them close. When you feel contented you are sympathetic, understanding and able to draw secrets out of those close which can help to sort out domestic misunderstandings. Your relations with brothers, sisters and close cousins are more detached, rather switch on and switch off.

Answer 9

Most people can't deal with the intensity and secretive nature of a scorpio. It's one of the best signs to date though. I am scorpio and I tend to date Aries, Leo and Taurus. We are supposed to be most compatible with Cancer, though I don't find many people I'm friends with under this sign.

Answer 10

Your relationships are what you make of them. If you are a strict adherent to horoscopes, then Scorpios seem to come across to me as stubborn, strong-willed, and at times defiant. Tone down the attitude and see where you'll go. Don't lose your passion though.